Ruby Slippers Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 I know that men believe that they can please women by doing things which they believe great for girls, for example, oral sex for her. Unfortunately, they would never ask a girl how she would like to do that for her. So, there is the only way to survive the useless torture by faking an orgasm. If he doesn't ask, you tell him. It's not rocket science. That's exactly what I did with the last guy, and in fact have done with every sex partner. I was more shy about giving them direct, explicit instructions when I was younger, but now I don't hesitate. They're not mind readers. You have to tell them how to drive you wild. They will do it, believe me. I have never had the purely sex only arrangement that I am gathering most people mean when they say FWB. Up to now and at the moment, I would rather just masturbate than go for that. Was he exclusive with you? Were you exclusive with him? How long did it last? Yes, we were exclusive. I was concerned about that for health/STD prevention. We dated for a few weeks to a month. Then I broke that off and we tried something like FWB -- but it was really more like dating with no commitment. But he wanted more and couldn't seem to keep himself from showing and telling me that. So, I gave it a "real shot", and quickly remembered why I had ended it in the first place, and ended it again -- this time for good.
sugarmomma Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 I'm nobody's waste station. Sex is so much more fulfilling when I know the person cares genuinely for me as a person as opposed to an object. I've done it in the past and usually because I was using the guy and that way I wouldn't have to deal with some other issue I was having. I was able to get a release, but no real satisfaction. No more FWB for me. Only a man who cherishes me from now on will be able to touch my awesome body.:bunny::bunny:
tigressA Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 I don't have any girlfriends who would never engage in an FWB setup with a guy. I definitely have nothing against it; in fact if I could have another FWB relationship as successful as my first one, I'd probably stay in it forever. Feelings can be so..."ugh" a lot of the time.
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