Pleco Posted March 12, 2010 Posted March 12, 2010 So my car was stolen a few nights ago. I found out about it yesterday. All this past week my boyfriend has been depressed for no apparent reason. Just "in a funk" so to speak. I catered to this depression at first, but now (no offense to him) it has taken less of a priority because of my car. And although I appreciate that sometimes people feel like crap, right now I have a very serious REASON to feel like crap. Yesterday he virtually ignored me. He played video games while I tried to figure out if my car was stolen or not. He didn't touch me or kiss me all day (which is HIGHLY unusual for him). While we were at the Police station, he was worried because he was going to be late taking him mom to the airport. I asked him to leave me there and he acted like it would be a huge inconvenience to have to drive all the way back to the police station from the airport to come get me afterwards. I told him to leave, I was getting my dad to come get me. So he left me there. Fast forward to that night, he was still distant but that all changed when he got horny. Then he was kissing me and touching me, which of course turned me off for obvious reasons and I turned him down. Today, I was really upset about the things that had happened yesterday. He finally asked me "if I was going to say anything nice to him at all" and I told him no, for the reasons I explained earlier. We then got into an argument about it - him saying that he was depressed too and acting like I was an ass for thinking that my problem was greater than his (WTF?? It is!). It ended up with him leaving me at the police station again, telling me to call him if I needed a ride. (I don't have a phone, the charger was stolen with the car). I had to use a cop's phone. The police took me back home to my mom's house. Topping all of this off is the fact that we are moving into a new house this weekend. I am so stressed! I have just needed support from him, and I don't want to have to beg for it! I have been really quiet and I have not been trying to kiss or talk to him much either, but that is because I am really stressed out. What the hell did I do wrong?
Barky Posted March 12, 2010 Posted March 12, 2010 Sounds like you two are on a short ride to badtown.
Recommended Posts