threebyfate Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 when out at the bars i see women really into men who are making them laugh with corny jokes. is this a turn on for them or is it they already like the dude?It might be either/or. Who doesn't enjoy laughing?
shadowplay Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 As someone else said, it's a great bonus but not a requirement. I like it more because it indicates intelligence.
Johnny M Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 A sense of humor is an important quality to everyone, as you can never be fully at ease with someone who you can't laugh together with (Imagine an overly serious and/or PC co-worker, teacher, etc. Could you see yourself dating someone like that?). However, as with most things, there's a point where one's sense of humor becomes too much. For me, it's a huge turn-off when a girl is a smartass and is constantly cracking jokes. Somehow, that makes her appear less feminine to me. Usually, these girls have either grown up in a male-dominated environment (i.e. raised by older brothers) or were "one of the guy's" in high-school and have never been able to shake off that mentality.
pandagirl Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 It's very, very important to me! I don't want a stand-up comedian, but I'm into quick-witted, sarcastic, off-the-wall humor, so if a guy can't keep up with me, it won't work out. I like to take the piss out of people, so if guy doesn't "get it," he will just probably think I'm mean. Really, it's just another form of affection! My boyfriend now totally gets my sense of humor, and it's one of the things I love about our relationship the best. We can verbally spar back-and-forth like an episode of Seinfeld and it's like foreplay.
kimbop Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 Well when the lights are out, people all look alike in the dark. It's their personality that makes the mark. A sense of humor makes them distinctive. Also it's boring to have a relationship with a pretty person who's souless. I rather have a poster of a hot man and a bottle of vodka. Then I can carry a conversation for two people.
Twenty-ten Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 I always find the way this question is worded odd, who doesn't have a sense of humour unless you are clinically depressed? Everyone has a sense of humour, it's whether yours matches with others I would think is a better way to ask the question. To me it's very important that my sense of humour matches his and a deal breaker if it does not.
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