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so theres this guy.. but a bit of confusion?


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so a few weeks ago/month and a bit ago, i met a really great guy. he is my neighbour in a type of complex building (as i am a university student). he had a girlfriend at the time, but we talked for hours about everything - really connected. this happened a few times more over the course of the week, and then i discovered he broke up with his girlfriend. i didnt really see him for a little while, which was strange, but one night at a party he came up to me and we hit it off again - this time, he walked me home and we kissed. he wanted to do more, but i said no

 

then, after that i literally didnt see or hear from him for about two weeks. strange, as he lives next door to me. i saw him out and he was really friendly as usual, but then last night i saw him in town (we were both a little drunk) and he starting dancing quite closely with me.. then, suddenly, tried to set me up with one of his friends. i wasnt interested, but after this happened, he began kissing me again. suddenly, he was like "i have to go home, sorry".. and kind of went off, but hinted at me to go with him.

 

im a little confused. we get along so well, but then weird things like this happen (him trying to set me up with his friend) and i dont know.

 

any advice? sorry for the ramble, just confused.

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Nothing weird happened, he just isnt into you beyond sex. Thats why he wants to take you home so quickly.

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Don't be fooled into thinking you've connected. He seems rather "messed up," maybe it's the breakup, maybe he is just looking for sex to deal with the breakup. A man who is really interested in you doesn't offer you to his friend. I would stay away from this guy.

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He wants to have sex with you, silly. When you turn him down he loses interest.

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