phoenix1 Posted March 12, 2010 Posted March 12, 2010 I didn't answer, and he left a message that had the complete feel of "I'm calling just so you can't say I didn't". He sounded weird and like he didn't know what to say. He said he wanted to take me to a bday lunch. I think in some ways it would have been less painful if he hadn't called me. It just so hurts me to feel so distant and disconnected from someone who not long ago loved me so much. To be treated like almost nothing. I have not called him back. I was tempted to write him an email and tell him what an ******* he is, but I wrote it and just saved it to my drafts, never to be sent. I figured no response to his call and invite would be better than a rant. Will try to posy here if I feel tempted.... Feel awful. But will feel better....eventually.
leoine Posted March 12, 2010 Posted March 12, 2010 how long ago was your break up? good job on NOT sending the email. they always read tooo emotional when you read it later. I don't know that other LS might think, but I suppose you could just sms 'thanks' in regards to the b-day wishes, and nothing else. I would say 'thanks' just out of politeness - but stick to NC.
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