Norville_Rogers Posted March 12, 2010 Posted March 12, 2010 as long as it takes. I am a patient individual and I see no shame in pleasuring myself until the right person comes along to do the pleasuring for me. I agree with this....I'm the same way
skydiveaddict Posted March 12, 2010 Posted March 12, 2010 army guys are smoking hot. i've done a nypd police offer. mmm. How does the Colorado Nat'l Guard stack up?
Leia Posted March 12, 2010 Posted March 12, 2010 6 - 12 months. I am sure I can go on longer. I don't do casual sex.
craw Posted March 12, 2010 Posted March 12, 2010 How does the Colorado Nat'l Guard stack up? pretty good - mmm tease.
threebyfate Posted March 12, 2010 Posted March 12, 2010 how long can you go without sex when your not in a commited relationship and don't necessarily have an FWB.I can go forever without sex, if not in a committed relationship. I don't do FWBs. And do you ever get tired of being single? When you do what are your thoughts.Beyond one dating strike, I never stopped dating while single, sometimes just for fun, other times considering the person I'm dating, as possible relationship material. When I was single, I enjoyed it A LOT. But now that I'm married to the right man, I also enoy it A LOT and more!
hoping2heal Posted March 12, 2010 Posted March 12, 2010 I was hooking up with an attractive girl about a month ago. She then decided that squeezing my testicles was supposed to somehow be "h0tt." She must be a faithful reader of Cosmo
Crusoe Posted March 12, 2010 Posted March 12, 2010 Have so far gone 6 years without any nookie, have never been into casual sex and would have no problem being celibate for the rest of my life. Sometimes tire of being single. Thoughts during these times? I miss not having someone to look after, a purpose, a cause. Is that not what love is, a cause?
shadowplay Posted March 12, 2010 Posted March 12, 2010 I could never have sex again and probably not miss it that much. What would be much, much harder is going a long time without touching, cuddling and everything that leads up to sex.
Bejita463 Posted March 12, 2010 Posted March 12, 2010 I could never have sex again and probably not miss it that much. What would be much, much harder is going a long time without touching, cuddling and everything that leads up to sex. I've never really thought about it that way, but I think I might be able to agree with that. Intriguing.
bayouboi Posted March 12, 2010 Posted March 12, 2010 Currently at the 5 month mark. Like someone else mentioned earlier, the period immediately following a regular relationship feels like you're going through withdrawal when you feel like you're going to die without it. The more time passes, however, the more comfortable I'm becoming being single and enjoying life.
meerkat stew Posted March 12, 2010 Posted March 12, 2010 Could likely go indefinitely, but after about six months, I start to think about it more, and generally become involved again within 8-12 months of the last relationship.
Lizzie60 Posted March 12, 2010 Posted March 12, 2010 how long can you go without sex when your not in a commited relationship and don't necessarily have an FWB. And do you ever get tired of being single? When you do what are your thoughts. Just Curious. Women you can answer too! How long? Hummm let's see... a week.. and nope.. never got tired of being single.. I looooove it.
phineas Posted March 12, 2010 Posted March 12, 2010 About 2 yrs back in my 20's when i'd just been burned too many times by women. I went 7 months after i seperated from my wife. Hooked up a few times with a chick I used to know last month. got tired of being just a booty call. I mean she'd show up, have sex then leave. It really wasn't as cracked up as I thought it would be. Going on a month or so again now. If I go more than a few days without rubbing one out I start getting random erections during the day. Not good in an office setting while wearing kackies. so on average I rub one out once a day. I can go indeffinetly without sex. I like the "do what I want, when I want, with who I want, & not have to ask permission to buy something I want" aspect of no longer being married. It's the companionship I miss. However I can't do companionship without intimacy because then it feels like a waste of time if that makes sense.
Stockalone Posted March 12, 2010 Posted March 12, 2010 how long can you go without sex when your not in a commited relationship and don't necessarily have an FWB. "For ever and a day." I do miss sex, but the sex itself is IMO not the important thing. After a couple of years, there are other things that I find are far more difficult to go without. And do you ever get tired of being single? Absolutely. When you do what are your thoughts. That a couple of years without any intimacy have taken their toll. It really sucks to not have the emotional and physical intimacy of a loving relationship.
paperchase Posted March 12, 2010 Posted March 12, 2010 A better question might be how long you can go without climaxing. Sex, you go as long as you need to because it's not always in your control. On one hand, there's a need for physical intimacy on the other hand there's just a physical need. Because I've been a serial monogamous since my teenage years, I've had both needs met regularly, but I also know that after about 4 days I am in a bit of pain if those needs aren't attended to.
Barky Posted March 12, 2010 Posted March 12, 2010 Meaningless sex is just that. The whole idea is to find someone you love. Someone to share your life with. Bah, life itself is meaningless. Therefore everything we do is ultimately meaningless. Trying thinking like this: sex=love If you're banging someone, it means you love him/her. Love many people
tami-chan Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 how long can you go without sex whejeeez.n your not in a commited relationship and don't necessarily have an FWB. More than a decade!!!!and I was married! jeez..!!!! And do you ever get tired of being single? When you do what are your thoughts. Haven't been single for a long time....I am used to having someone, though...and I miss it a lot! But I can't do casual...If I find out that I was somebody's casual fling, I think that would mess me up...! I am just not wired that way !
Mr White Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 Indefinitely. (my longest has been almost 2 years, in grad school) But, there is nothing to prove so, in between relationships thereafter I'd just call a hooker every once in a while.
Mr White Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 A better question might be how long you can go without climaxing. Sex, you go as long as you need to because it's not always in your control. On one hand, there's a need for physical intimacy on the other hand there's just a physical need. Because I've been a serial monogamous since my teenage years, I've had both needs met regularly, but I also know that after about 4 days I am in a bit of pain if those needs aren't attended to. Yup, that's the more interesting question; masturbation can be a valve pretty much indefinitely, but beyond that, what? In case of men, the secon layer of valves (wet dreams) will kick in eventually though. In a month or two max.
Barky Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 Are hookers worth it? I've been tempted to try but get scared. Plus I think of the cool toys I could buy with the money.
Mr White Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 Are hookers worth it? I've been tempted to try but get scared. Plus I think of the cool toys I could buy with the money. Not really (unless you get a really expensive one, i guess...). Sex is typically mediocre, but can be fun. A lot depends on the girl's personality, much like "in real life". Also consider the fact that it is illegal in this country, after all.
TheBigQuestion Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 She must be a faithful reader of Cosmo She did it to the point of causing extreme pain. If that's what Cosmo promotes, F*** them
kiss_andmakeup Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 Since being sexually active, I think the longest I've gone is 1-2 weeks. And those weeks felt like an eternity.
Barky Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 In my mid-20s post-college life I went for nearly 5 years without getting laid, only punctuated once in the middle when I banged some horrible chubster a couple of times. Really an awful time in my life. Internet dating saved my @ss.
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