paleblue Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 keep your head up. there's always another one right around the corner
Author alphamale Posted March 15, 2010 Author Posted March 15, 2010 i think i've lost my mojo amerikajin
amerikajin Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 i think i've lost my mojo amerikajin I'm guessing it's because there's other sh*t in your life that's getting inside your head. It's not just women, right?
Author alphamale Posted March 15, 2010 Author Posted March 15, 2010 I'm guessing it's because there's other sh*t in your life that's getting inside your head. It's not just women, right? yea pretty much
amerikajin Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 yea pretty much Clear the other junk out of your head first...the rest will kinda fall into place.
Author alphamale Posted March 15, 2010 Author Posted March 15, 2010 Clear the other junk out of your head first...the rest will kinda fall into place. i guess you're right, chicks are not a high priority now
Johnny M Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 i still don't have any chicks i can call....well there is one, Lorna, but i don't know if I'm into her that much From your posts, it seems like you've been seeing a lot of women who you weren't into "that much". Were you going for quantity to compensate for the lack of quality? My advice is to slow down and not worry about how many numbers you did or did not get. Instead, try to find 2-3 girls that you actually like - a lot - and focus your attention on them. Don't date girls who you are not really into simply because you have nothing better going on at the moment. Not only is it a waste of time and money, but it would ultimately hurt you self esteem instead of helping it.
Author alphamale Posted March 15, 2010 Author Posted March 15, 2010 Don't date girls who you are not really into simply because you have nothing better going on at the moment. Not only is it a waste of time and money, but it would ultimately hurt you self esteem instead of helping it. indeed JM...
BobSacamento Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 From your posts, it seems like you've been seeing a lot of women who you weren't into "that much". Were you going for quantity to compensate for the lack of quality? My advice is to slow down and not worry about how many numbers you did or did not get. Instead, try to find 2-3 girls that you actually like - a lot - and focus your attention on them. Don't date girls who you are not really into simply because you have nothing better going on at the moment. Not only is it a waste of time and money, but it would ultimately hurt you self esteem instead of helping it. I second this. It's like your going out just to see how many numbers you can get in order to feed your ego. Rejection is brutal enough so any unnecessary rejection should be avoided at all costs.
homersheineken Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 Why not just invite her out for a drink or two. Don't plan anything, just a casual night out. See where it leads. If you're not sure you want to be with her alone for fear of suggesting something, you can always tell her to invite her friends...some of whom might be hot. And even if they're not, it probably beats sitting at home alone boozing it up in front of the television. I agree. One word: PARTY! If you can't throw it, get a friend or 2 to have one and tell them to invite people (ahem chicks).
kimbop Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 Alpha, Mojo is not something that packs its bags and moves to Europe forever. It's still inside of you, hidden in the deep recesses of your personality. So before you find it, look down at your hand and be re-acquainted. You'll be fine. The monsoon season will come soon when warmer weather arrives. Spring fever makes people go all crazy.
start-fresh Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 So before you find it, look down at your hand and be re-acquainted.
bac Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 From what I know many guys, when they are in a dry spell, will call/email every girl from their list who they have dated during last 1-1.5 yrs. I have received many random calls like that. I guess if they do that, it might work? Try free dating sites. I think it works for short-term relationships well.
sigurpol Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 Prior to my last short lived girlfriend, I had been in about a.. 2+ year dating slump. Wow, now that I'm reading that, that's sorta bad. Hahaha.
Author alphamale Posted March 21, 2010 Author Posted March 21, 2010 well i went out last nite and came home empty handed. no numbers. no anything. there were a bunch of chicks there but they were so busy talking with themselves it was hard to break in. oh well maybe next time i suppose.
amerikajin Posted March 21, 2010 Posted March 21, 2010 well i went out last nite and came home empty handed. no numbers. no anything. there were a bunch of chicks there but they were so busy talking with themselves it was hard to break in. oh well maybe next time i suppose. Don't try so hard...
DustySaltus Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 well i went out last nite and came home empty handed. no numbers. no anything. there were a bunch of chicks there but they were so busy talking with themselves it was hard to break in. oh well maybe next time i suppose. You have to focus on the "tag along friend" in that scenario and break her away from the rest of the pack... stick to the alpha textbook
USMCHokie Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Don't try so hard... I cannot agree more with this statement...
lordWilhelm Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 dude you need to rediscover the alpha in you... right now you're sounding so beta the girls can sniff you from a mile away.
Yamaha Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 I think ur having an "I'm getting older and I need validation from chicks" moment. Am I warm?
crfsti Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 This is a slump? I haven't been able to get a date in like 2.5yrs.... Just be yourself and focus on you and things will turn around.
Pizzaman81 Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Well i haven't gotten any new numbers in a few weeks. Its also been a couple weeks since i've had a date. I asked a girl out last night and she said no. I'm really feeling low. With dating its either feast or famine and i'm starving right now. Anyone have any advice or comforting words? Well hey we all have slumps. I am in a slump for example. But just think of all the dates you did go on... let the world see your credentials!
desertmoon Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 alphamale's credentials: Click on name then click on profile, then click "all posts started by alphamale"
SilkRose Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Well i haven't gotten any new numbers in a few weeks. Its also been a couple weeks since i've had a date. I asked a girl out last night and she said no. I'm really feeling low. With dating its either feast or famine and i'm starving right now. Anyone have any advice or comforting words? So 'AlphaMale's Guide to Keeping Women Around' didn't work. In that thread you described how you were punishing/confussing your then girlfriend with silence and distance... Why not try to meet one special women and be genuine and honest? She might just treat you well in return.
Author alphamale Posted March 26, 2010 Author Posted March 26, 2010 i went out last nite and asked this girl debbie out, she said no - the slump continues. i've been batting .000 lately
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