Barky Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 Yup, as Chris Rock says, "A man is as faithful as his options." Meaning that the reason your man is not banging other women is because they won't have him.
nowomanocry Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 I thought it was rather funny.. and very true... Most men would do the exact same thing if they thought they could get sex... I've made the same experiment once.. (when I think about it.. I've done it more than once).. but that time, I intentionally did it to prove how a man can succomb even if he says he would never ever cheat. That guy on vacation, a few years ago.... he was in his early 40s.. his wife must have been around 37-38, and they had a young son, about 5 yrs old... I was alone on vacation.. They came in the restaurant and sat at the table next to mine... He was incredibly attractive.. I looked at him.. several times.. and he noticed it.. Later that night, I was at the bar, he came in.. with his wife and son, then they left.. he came back alone about 1/2 hour later.. he sat at the bar... I went to the bar and ordered a drink.. we started to chat.. we were openly talking about 'relationships' in general... he said she was his 2nd wife.. and he was very much in love with this woman.. married for about 6 years... He was a fireman... and also working at American Airlines. He said he never cheated before.. even on his first wife.. (he wasn't happy with her)... blablabla... I then invited him to my room.. I was feeling very frisky.. and I was looking very sexy... I knew he liked me.. and I was pretty sure he would come over.. at first he said he couldn't do that.. so I left after I gave him my room number.. Five minutes after I was in my room... he was at my door.. he got in.. we started to kiss.. he was getting excited.. I removed my top... and as soom as I touch him.. he came.. He then started to cry like a baby... saying how dumb he was, how incredibly sorry he was ... that he had to go back since he felt soo bad about his wife.. blablabla.. The next day, at the beach, I went to the bar .. he followed me.. I told him I was sorry for the night before.. he then said, that if he would have been alone, without his wife there.. he would have f*cked me all night.. We talked a few times before I left.. Most men are easy ... and I challenge any woman... if you try this experiment.. I can almost guarantee that it will work 99.9% of the time.. even with guys who swear would never ever cheat.. Interesting.. Excellent post that was, thanks.... I think the real life examples are very interesting, and as we are on a forum here ppl can xpress themselves pretty much openly, nothing to fear,,, makes the ignorant find out wot life is all about & for me to confirm my findings.... never fails I am sorry for the guy tho, I think he needs to get his testesterone levels tested lol....or he has impotency issues who knows lol He doesn't make sense on this one as well --> "he then said, that if he would have been alone, without his wife there.. he would have f*cked me all night"... now someone please tell me wot difference does it make his wife being there or not for a slam-bam ty ma'am? Lizzie, btw hun 99,9 % is a bit exaggerated when you think of impotent males, and poor fellas like ur sample here dontcha think lol ;) Take care
Bejita463 Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 Just think if all those smarts went into building a healthy relationship..... You're a cool guy. I like the way you think. Usually.
Lizzie60 Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 Excellent post that was, thanks.... I think the real life examples are very interesting, and as we are on a forum here ppl can xpress themselves pretty much openly, nothing to fear,,, makes the ignorant find out wot life is all about & for me to confirm my findings.... never fails I am sorry for the guy tho, I think he needs to get his testesterone levels tested lol....or he has impotency issues who knows lol He doesn't make sense on this one as well --> "he then said, that if he would have been alone, without his wife there.. he would have f*cked me all night"... now someone please tell me wot difference does it make his wife being there or not for a slam-bam ty ma'am? Lizzie, btw hun 99,9 % is a bit exaggerated when you think of impotent males, and poor fellas like ur sample here dontcha think lol ;) Take care I didn't get to know the guy well enough to know if he was too excited or if he had sexual problems.. but he was hard as rock.. so ED was not the issue.. I think he was way too excited.. by all this 'newness' and how it all happened.. When I say 99.9% I'm certainly not talking about the impotent or the ones who just can't get any women... I'm talking about the every day, average guy. We had two convo about that night.. he later told me how he fantasized about that night.. that he would have bend me over the sink.. blablabla.. because when he started to cry (and act like a big baby) he was in the bathroom (getting cleaned up).. I still think that most men would get caught, even if they swear they would never cheat... When a guy gets a female attention,, they get a little obsessed by it.. and do things they can later regret.. but they are big boys.. and they have to assume their mistakes..
Bejita463 Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 I still think that most men would get caught, even if they swear they would never cheat... Even when I was still married and unhappy with my marriage, I still ignored opportunities to cheat. Not refused; ignored.
Woggle Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 Lizzie's experiment would never work on me. god knows I have my issues but one thing I never will do is cheat. I just do not think with that head. I can look at a woman and see she is attractive but it is just not something I would do. I have a big issue with lying to and betraying people no matter who they are. If I am that unhappy in any relationship I will leave.
nowomanocry Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 I didn't get to know the guy well enough to know if he was too excited or if he had sexual problems.. but he was hard as rock.. so ED was not the issue.. I think he was way too excited.. by all this 'newness' and how it all happened..--> he was hard as rock and he went to the bathroom for cleaning up, seems like cudn't shake off petting habits lol When I say 99.9% I'm certainly not talking about the impotent or the ones who just can't get any women... I'm talking about the every day, average guy.--> OK lol, sorry my job is all with statistics lmao We had two convo about that night.. he later told me how he fantasized about that night.. that he would have bend me over the sink.. blablabla.. because when he started to cry (and act like a big baby) he was in the bathroom (getting cleaned up).. --> now now then hmmm , started to cry????? I still think that most men would get caught, even if they swear they would never cheat... --> Hell yeah, that I would agree 100% . To all men here bbtw..... if you ever get caught even in the mid of it in bed simply press the DENY button lol When a guy gets a female attention,, they get a little obsessed by it.. and do things they can later regret.. but they are big boys.. and they have to assume their mistakes.. --> don't generalise luv tut tut ;).... roflmfaol Lizzie u made my day , bless you luv So u gona keep talking to this weirdo or simply ignore his calls from now on then Have a gr8 week-end
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