xtina22 Posted March 11, 2010 Posted March 11, 2010 Ok... this might be a long entry. Well i have been dating this guy i have known since i was 13/14 , we were never really close, then when i was 16 we started hanging out after i finished school, anyways cut things short a bit, we saw each other for a few months, we started dating it was perfect as they are at every start of a relationship, we would always meet up, do things together ect like a normal bf does. 5 months into the relo we had our first kind of fight, he was treating me like crap one night, and i was meant to see him with our friends to , he said he didnt want to see me but we ended up being together, wasnt really talking much to me. everyone was aking why he is being like that to me. we ended up all going to this park were we would always hang out, he and i both got out of different cars and went for a walk i got a txt msg saying that i dont deseve this and we should break for a bit. he ended up seeing me cry and realised he made a mistake and we went home together, the next few nights where fine, then he said to me one night im confused i dont see the point in being in a relationship if your not going to get married. he also said to me theres 2 sides of him, 1 side that loves me and wants to be with me the other side said he still wants to have fun (sleep around i guess ) but not hurt me. me being the idiot i am and said i want you to be happy and ill wait for you. ME THINKING a few weeks not even, 2 years later , i was still waiting. he had never been violent towards me and had grown up with a family of girls, it was one thing he was against. we went through a rough stage i barely went out, couldnt smoke, drink or see friends, whilst he could. he had sex with girls, made me sick...ect... now not to mention my 17th birthday made me cry, and recently i turned 18 and didnt even show up and broke up with me for no reason i ended up going clubbing anyways and he told me to leave to see him and i did. we had broken up for a month before that and when we saw each other again everything was beautifull after 2 weeks he started acting up, calling me a dumb*tch again gr i hate that word! about a week ago, he found out i was talking to this girl he told me not to speak to, as stupid as this sounds he broke it off for good, that night my friend had been dumped to, so we decided after huffing and puffin about it to go for a coffe . get this right, sitting down just had gotten there we see a car drive past and my friend told me it was her ex and my ex in the car, i said RUN! we looked back to see if they turned around and they did so we ran because we didnt want to see them, they ended up catching up and my ex at the time came after me and was yelling, i kept saying go away, he kept calling me a slut wich im far from mind you. things got really rough, he through my bag on the ground stomped on it and on my fone, broke a fair few things, push came to shuv, then things got really insane, he kept going at me so i slaped him, my bad of course but he slaped me back then grabbed me by the throat chocked me, and i fell hard on the gound. he ripped the cross of my kneck which means alot seeing as i am greek orthodox and have had it since i was a baby. he came up to me very apologetic and in shock and couldnt belive he had done that.. i couldnt belive it either, i kept saying your a shame you told me you would never lay a hand on me ect... so now, ive recently started a job at a hair dressing salon and for the past few days he hasnt answered my fone calls, apprently is pissed of at me and told me to ' F**** off and give him some F****ng space.' i dont know what to do, in a sence i cant leave him and i dont know whats holding me back, but i know whats best to do, i would like some advice, besides leave him leave him ive heard it alot. sorry for the long post! really hope to hear from you
boogieboy Posted March 11, 2010 Posted March 11, 2010 Ask yourself this, how many times would he have to choke you and push you to the ground and break your cross chain for you to lose your attraction for him? Would he have to punch you? Hit you with his car? Because if you continue with this, thats all you will get.
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