Mme. Chaucer Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 Cheating is sleazy in all forms. Cheating on your exams because it was easy, stealing because merchandise is sitting right in front of you unguarded, cheating at online Scrabble because the "help" sites are readily available, and cheating on your spouse just because the Internet makes it a lot more convenient than having to troll bars or the grocery store ... all sleazy. Yes, temptation is all around. It's difficult to resist. Some of us have failed to resist, felt sleazy and hope to never repeat such a thing again. And then there are those like the OP. People like Caliziggy are simply people with low moral standards. I don't choose to have folks like that around me in my life ... not worth much to me. We live in a society where one can be "free" to have as many sexual partners as they wish, sometimes even within an OPEN committed relationship. Why be a douchey CHEATER? Do some people just love to be losers?
Woman In Blue Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 I think women like to believe men are different than they really are.. (Yeah, men need some deep emotional connection to cheat LOL) I'm not one of those women. I pretty much believe 99% (or more) of men are only as honest as their options.
grogster Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 I'm not one of those women. I pretty much believe 99% (or more) of men are only as honest as their options. Very well said, WIB. Sad but true, overall.
Author calizaggy Posted March 15, 2010 Author Posted March 15, 2010 People like Caliziggy are simply people with low moral standards. I don't choose to have folks like that around me in my life ... not worth much to me. /QUOTE] Hahaha.. When did i say it was myself cheating? I made an observation based on many married men I know that use the internet, along with many of the threads on this site. I would have to be an idiot to not notice or deny the obvious..
Mme. Chaucer Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 There seem to be 2 camps..(I am gearing this towards men who cheat) 1. A "cheater" is simply a "cheater" and will find a way, internet or not.. 2. The internet provides a medium that turns people whom would not cheat into cheaters.. I would be in camp 2. You've designated yourself as a member of "camp 2" right in your initial post.
threebyfate Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 I'm not one of those women. I pretty much believe 99% (or more) of men are only as honest as their options.We'll have to disagree on this. Saying it, doesn't make it fact.
Author calizaggy Posted March 16, 2010 Author Posted March 16, 2010 You've designated yourself as a member of "camp 2" right in your initial post. Yes camp 2, as in that is my overall belief..Not that I am currently cheating, lol. All of you women say "A man will cheat no matter what".. But if he is not going to bars, and does not work with women, how would he cheat? Where would he find these women who want no strings casual sex? It is not easy for men to get laid even if they work with women AND go to bars.. The internet puts all of these women in one easy to find spot, and a man can sample all he wants with relative ease..
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