speedy_banana Posted January 10, 2004 Share Posted January 10, 2004 So I was talking to this girl last semester and she told me she was interested in me and we talked a lot on the phone, had long msn convos and spent time together. So recently like 3-4 weeks ago shes been avoiding me and just not calling me anymore, so I asked her two days ago why shes acting like that. She told me she hasn't even noticed and shes been busy with personal stuff. I'm like ok thats understandable, we talked yesterday too and it all came out. She told me that how we're complete opposites and that it would have never worked between us. Which hit me kinda hard because she really never got to know me and aside from that another guy was in the picture. We were fine like 3 weeks ago and shes telling me she might have feelings for another guy?!?! Like wth is that? This girl played me big time and I'm just starting to realize it now. She told me the exact same thing too "she wants to take it slow, get over things with her ex and she wants to be fair to me" Ok she told me the same thing about this new guy yesterday. I'm so pissed right now, I was supposed to go to a club tonight because shes having her birthday at one. Now I don't even want to go, I'm going to skip it and make up some excuse that I had a family emergency. Worst part still coming, this girls in my program!! I have all my classes with her until April!! How do I deal with that, getting over someone yea I can do that but how do I deal with someone who I see almost every day! Advice needed! Link to post Share on other sites
look forward Posted January 10, 2004 Share Posted January 10, 2004 I'm sorry but the words "its her loss" springs to mind.. you've been there for her and she plays you.. some people really dont think about anyone else but themselves i swear..it sounds like this girl doesn't deserve you and you should find someone who is worthy of you..... its clearly not her... ok i know its hard but my advise to you would be to pick yourself up and show this girl that she played with the wrong guy.. go to the party dont hide from her show her that you can have fun an enjoy life with or without her... RE: her being in your classes that's a tough one.. but your gonna have to find the strength to hold your head up and act the norm when you see her even if its tough.. dont let her see you upset.. trust me there is nothing more appealing to a girl who think she knows it all to see a guy getting on with things and acting like they aint that bothered.. we'll soon see the tables turn... Keep smiling sweety its gonna be tough but you can do it .. be strong!!! ;-) Link to post Share on other sites
Samson Posted January 10, 2004 Share Posted January 10, 2004 how do I deal with someone who I see almost every day! Advice needed! Grow up. It only gets worse: You're going to work with, live next to, be related to, and even possibly live with, people you cannot stand. It's a slice of life. Hope a sweeter slice comes your way soon. Link to post Share on other sites
Vivid_29 Posted January 10, 2004 Share Posted January 10, 2004 Banana - I really don't see how she screwed you over. All she said was that you weren't compatible and that she has feelings for another man. Now if you were married and she took your house, car, money, kids, manhood, then I would say that she screwed you over! I work with my ex and in time, those akward feelings just faded. Now, I just view her as a regular employee. Maybe, if given enough time, you'll learn to do the same. Move on -- You'll meet someone else. ~V Link to post Share on other sites
AllyKat Posted January 10, 2004 Share Posted January 10, 2004 Do you know what sucks? Is that you did invest time in this girl and this happened to you and you will have to still see her. It has happened to most of us one time or another. What you need to realize is that for some reason, its not meant to be. Maybe there is someone else just so much more compatible out there for you, just give it time. I hate running into this one ex of mine, it wasnt mutual and he hurt me. But, you get through it and realize how strong you really are. And that is what you will do. Realize you loved her for the girl you thought she was, not for who she really was. You cant make her love you, so you need to let her go. Im sorry it didnt work out, get out there though, meet some girls. You are still young. Dont rush things. Link to post Share on other sites
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