Tattooedlady25 Posted March 10, 2010 Posted March 10, 2010 I have been with my husband since I was 16. We have been together for almost 10 years married 5 1/2. I don't feel like he's in love with me anymore and I don't feel like in love with him either. I never see him anymore. I spend alot if time alone. It feels like were just friends. I've talked to him and hecsays he's still in love with me and ge dosent know what else to say. That's all ge says he loves me. He's never been romantic. All presents, down to my engagment ring I've picked out because he didn't know what i would want. I've expressed many times I'm bothered by that.the only affection is kisses when he goes to work. I have never been independent in any way. I dropped out if school and never got a GED because I have relied on him always finacially. I love him but just not as I should anymore. I don't know what to do. I want to be happy and for him to but were not. We have no kids just a home together. I wish he would try. But he dosent.
PortuguesePrincess80 Posted March 11, 2010 Posted March 11, 2010 Well why not try to get your GED since you don't have kids? At least make something or yourself..and less dependant on him. Maybe he's tired of supporting you financially..and may feel insulted when on top you want gifts and romance! Why not TRY to be indpendant for your futures sake?
Author Tattooedlady25 Posted March 11, 2010 Author Posted March 11, 2010 I am taking classes. I'm didn't say I expect presents I made an example. I'm sorry if I feel hurt because I have devoted my life to him and I can't even get a thank you. And I have worked part time since I was 17. Only part time because I have spent my life being a "good" wife. Doing all the housework putting myself second. I'm sorry if Im upset my husband dosent seem to care or be thankful I have spent the last 9 years of my life for him. I feel unlove abd unappreciated.
Mme. Chaucer Posted March 11, 2010 Posted March 11, 2010 If you develop yourself and your own interests, maybe you will have a lot more to bring to the relationship. If it doesn't help the marriage, it will surely enrich you as a person. I doubt that your husband needs a "full time" wife to take care of his needs. Work on your OWN life!
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