ashlee Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 ok well in my last thread i had mentioned that i was dating someone when i was "taking a break" with my bf. well me and my bf got back together to see if we can make things work. i told my bf about this guy and he told me that he would like if i would break all contact with him so i have. but i cant stop thinking about him we had so much fun together i feel like if i wouldve kept seeing him things would have worked out for the long run. i just want to be talk to him but i know if i do i would end up seeing him and probably lead to cheating on my bf. i just dont know if i can keep doing this whole NC thing its driving me nuts! idk if i made the right choice.. im so confused..
seibert253 Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 Make a choice. You're not being fair to both guys, and you're not being fair to yourself. IMO; take a break from both. One month, NC with either. Don't date at all, take a break from guys in general. After one month, evaluate. Whom do you miss the most, TRUELY love, and you could see you spending the rest of your life with. There's your choice. Peace,
ashleigh422 Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 You know.. siebert.. that is a pretty good plan NC with both for a month.. I'd say that if one understands why you need it and still wants to see you after that... then perhaps they are worthy, and you may actually realize that one or both just are not right for you.
sid3 Posted March 14, 2010 Posted March 14, 2010 so you were taking a break from your bf and just happen to meet a really great guy in such a short time, or you didn't like being alone and this guy filled the empty feeling? It's not really clear how you see the other guy working out for the long run if you hadn't been seeing him for all that long. Could it be a case of the grass appearing greener. Regardless, I think you should tell your bf why you want to take a month of NC if that's what you decide you want. I think being honest about it is the way you'd want to be treated as well.
Barky Posted March 14, 2010 Posted March 14, 2010 One month, NC with either. After one month, evaluate. Whom do you miss the most, TRUELY love, and you could see you spending the rest of your life with. There's your choice. I would laugh so hard if she did that and both dudes found new women in that month and she was left with nothing.
seibert253 Posted March 15, 2010 Posted March 15, 2010 I would laugh so hard if she did that and both dudes found new women in that month and she was left with nothing. Then everyone is better off, because none of them were ment to be.
Author ashlee Posted March 15, 2010 Author Posted March 15, 2010 so you were taking a break from your bf and just happen to meet a really great guy in such a short time, or you didn't like being alone and this guy filled the empty feeling? . well it wasnt really that short of a time it was like 8 months and this guy i have been friends with before.... i went ahead and broke the nc with him it was a big mistake... we just talked on the phone and texting and he told me that he loved me and that i should be with him and to leave my boyfriend..... ughhh i love my bf for giving me a beautiful litle girl but im not sure if im in love with him. i mean one day i am happy and the next im sooo miserable.. i cant even talk to him about how i feel because he just turns it all around and makes things about him and argues. isnt a relationship supposed to be about communication i cant talk to him even about this because hes just so hard headed.... agh i feel like my head is gonna explode
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