Ilovecake Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 I post on a forum on another message board that is music related. My ex also posts there. There was always this girl that would hardcore flirt with him on there and was always extra mean to me. I never knew why she picked on me. She just posted a bunch of personal messages I wrote to my ex both from when we were still dating and from after we broke up. these are emails and things I sent via facebook as well as stuff from that forum that I sent via personal message. I didn't even know they knew each other and now I come to find out he has actually sharing very personal messages with this girl I never met. I want to cry.
Ronni_W Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 Hugs. Huge hugs. Not gonna talk about what it says about the two of them. Couple of juvenile freaks Sorry that this happened to you, ILC.
Tasha1675 Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 You poor thing, that's so so horrible. I agree with Ronni W, your ex and that girl are a pair of childish idiots! This behaviour just shows you why you don't need someone like that in your life. Sending you lots of hugs x
Author Ilovecake Posted March 9, 2010 Author Posted March 9, 2010 Yeah I've been posting there for 8 years but I'm done, no more. A few people saw the messages this girl posted and I received some very interesting private messages from other people who said my ex has been asking them to be mean to me and saying how I've lost my mind because he dumped me and how I can't get over him. It's really scary. A year and a half I've been changing me entire routine to try and get this guy to leave me alone. I have made all new friends, started hanging out at new places, that's when I leave the house which I hardly do. I'm so worn out, all that's left is to move out of town but I can't do that in this job market.
Sadbutrelieved Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 OMG, that's horrible! What a couple of c**ts. They need to have their heads pushed down into a mud puddle and stomped on a few times. These kinds of things really tick me off. They need a dose of their own medicine and I'm sure they'll get it someday. ETA: I'm sure the people he's lobbying to harass you recognize that he's the one with the problem, not you.
Author Ilovecake Posted March 9, 2010 Author Posted March 9, 2010 He's a 33 year old child but the woman that's posting the messages is a 50 year old Doctor. They need a life.
Author Ilovecake Posted March 9, 2010 Author Posted March 9, 2010 ETA: I'm sure the people he's lobbying to harass you recognize that he's the one with the problem, not you. Absolutely. Especially since they don't know him. One person even said to me "I was wondering why I got these massages from this guy and wondered who he was, I didn't know he was your ex".
Sadbutrelieved Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 He's a 33 year old child but the woman that's posting the messages is a 50 year old Doctor. They need a life. Wow. People that age should know better. I wonder if they know what cyberbullying is, and that it's prosecutable. Idiots. Let it roll off your back; they'll get what they deserve sooner or later. Hopefully sooner.
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