gjpax1 Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 So i've been seeing this girl for the past few weeks, and she is completely infatuated with me. She has told me this. We haven't had much time to hang out a whole lot because of our work schedules, but we did hang out a few times. She is always texting, and she ALWAYS starts the text messages asking what i'm doing and what not. One thing that bothers me is she ALWAYS text, she never wants to talk on the phone except the few times were i had called her cause i was tired of texting. There any sort of reason for this? She told me that she wanted to take it slow, which i respected, Anyways my main question is(and this probably sounds bad, but i'll give for the benefit of the doubt for now i guess) , but I recently found out that she has a boyfriend, and now i'm thinking she is just stalling with the whole "take it slow" thing, and she pretty much lied to me about having a boyfriend (cause i asked and she said they broke up) I had to find out from one of her friends that she has a boyfriend, and both her and her friend tell me that this guy doesn't treat her right, hes a douche and blah blah blah etc. but apparantly they have had some real relationship issues and she has broke up with him and went back to him(Why do girls/people do that?) all in the midst of chilling with me. We havn't done anything too intimate, we have cuddled and kissed a lil bit, but after i found this out i talked to her and i told her that i didn't appreciate what you were doing with me when you had a boyfriend, because it made me feel like she might do the same thing to me if we ever dated. I also said that i still don't mind hanging out (with the whole group of friends, we go clubbin and whatnot) but we need to tone things down phyiscally. Well, i wasn't really mad or upset when i said this. It was said in a more dubious manner. I've only known her for 3 weeks and she started crying...she was hysterical and she apologized for stringing me along. Is the crying immaturity (we only knew each other for 3 weeks) or is she just crazy about me? In that fact, is the whole situation immaturity or she just crazy about me? Should i end this, And any advice? Thanks
marsle85 Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 Bud... You don't need us to answer your question. This is a poor way to start a relationship. No way, Jose.
DustySaltus Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 I think you answered all of your own questions. She's obviously texting you all the time because it would be kind of hard talking to her with her BF right there. Any further contact with her would just set up disappointment. You handled yourself well. Welcome to LS.
txsilkysmoothe Posted March 10, 2010 Posted March 10, 2010 Is the crying immaturity (we only knew each other for 3 weeks) or is she just crazy about me? In that fact, is the whole situation immaturity or she just crazy about me? Should i end this, And any advice? Thanks Or is she just crazy? I think you should end it. She doesn't know who/what she wants.
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