Author Lishy Posted March 10, 2010 Author Posted March 10, 2010 well it is good to know I am not alone! I am so perplexed as to why he would still talk and laugh with me if he was not interested and yet if he is interested then its even more weird that he is not asking to see me again The thing is that now I am losing interest anyway yet it still puzzles me
Author Lishy Posted March 10, 2010 Author Posted March 10, 2010 Yes Three you are so right! I know when a guy is into me as I would not be on here asking for advice on it, I wouldnt need to as I would just know! Ok he is officially friend zoned on my behalf ... His loss! lol
Twenty-ten Posted March 10, 2010 Posted March 10, 2010 Yeah well here's the deal, when FB did the switch to the new version a lot of people's profiles became public, or their albums did so I had access to his photo albums. I later found out that the summer he and I met he had just gotten out of a very long term relationship, she wanted marriage he wouldn't step up so she dumped him and he was devastated wanting her back and it was too late. So when I met him apparently he was on a rampage to meet women and he was very popular with the girls and had only been a few months out for him. I know this because I saw in his albums, which he still has up, that he was indeed in a very committed rel with pics dating right up to that summer. So he was rebound and it explains the wishy-washy behavior. Sometimes we are quick to blame our shortcomings for someone else's tepid interest and there could be many factors that influence their level of interest, either way doesn't matter what the reason is if it seems like you are not getting what you deserve you prob aren't. You were right in your OP if it's not your style to chase, def don't start now.
Author Lishy Posted March 13, 2010 Author Posted March 13, 2010 Oh well it turned out he was just another liar! Onwards and upwards!
SadandConfusedWA Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 Oh well it turned out he was just another liar! Onwards and upwards! What happened Lishy?
Author Lishy Posted March 13, 2010 Author Posted March 13, 2010 well it turns out he contacted a good friend of mine (he didnt know we were good friends) and pretended that he had a job that he doesnt have anymore, he got fired in January and he made up this big elaborate thing of how the job is hard work but they look after him etc I know its not a big lie but its a lie and I cant stand Liars! So I have gone cold on him now and I hope he gets the hint and does not contact me again This is why I hate men! lol
Author Lishy Posted March 17, 2010 Author Posted March 17, 2010 Are all men liars???? Or am I just like a magnet to them???
donnamaybe Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 Are all men liars???? Or am I just like a magnet to them??? No, you're not a magnet. LOTS of people are liars. You just have to weed them out as quickly as you discover their propensity for telling tales and then.... "NEXT!"
Engadget Posted March 17, 2010 Posted March 17, 2010 Hey girl! Well your date sounds like it progressed splendidly. You should however not be so available, don't talk to him everyday! You're busy! Elusive! Dating other men! No more speaking every night =) On the bright side, I think he's interested. I'd give him time. He had an excuse for not bringing Saturday up. Let HIM pursue! Don't text him again, don't invite him out again! Wait it out. And if not- what's the worst that can happen? You went 18 years without seeing him before, you can do it again. Yes I agree with this. The way I see it he is either not interested in anything more, or he's waiting for you to push it. He may think the same thing and not think you're interested.
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