Barky Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 They all know I am single and free.. no commitment is our 'rule'... That's cool, it's too bad men can't really do the same thing unless they're extremely rich and/or famous.
Tres Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 The only ones I 'dump' are the ones where the sex is bad. Or shall I say I encourage them to dump me. I just say, "I don't think we have any sexual chemistry," and they're out the door faster than a bullet. It's amazing. If a guy wants a girl to go away, that's the magic line. I just have an opposite problem. The only men who dumped me were the ones where the sex was mind-blowing for both of us. They encouraged me to dump them. They just said that they were kind of busy with other girls but they wanted me as well. The guys, who are very bad at sex, usually stick to me unless I dump them myself. I just say, "Sex is great, but I don't think we have any emotional connection", and they 're out the door faster than a bullet.
Lizzie60 Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 That's cool, it's too bad men can't really do the same thing unless they're extremely rich and/or famous. Huh??? no need to be rich and famous to have many sexual partners..
Barky Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 Huh??? no need to be rich and famous to have many sexual partners.. For men, having "many sexual partners" is not an easy task unless you look like Jared Leto. If you're just an average shlub, like myself, you can't just say to women, "Hey honey, I'm gonna bang you, and bang a ton of other chicks too, and you can like it or not." Well, you CAN say that but you won't ever have sex again
tami-chan Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 Yeah if I wanted to go dateless I'd do that Oh, so are you saying that the only way you can have a date is to be deceitful? You know, if you are honest, some women will take what you can offer....or not...
Barky Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 Oh, so are you saying that the only way you can have a date is to be deceitful? ...says the woman wearing makeup, false eyelashes, hair coloring...
sweetjasmine Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 ...says the woman wearing makeup, false eyelashes, hair coloring... Yeah, that's totally on the same level as sleeping with multiple people but not telling the ones who are sticking around for a while that you're banging other chicks, too.
mrt336 Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 When it comes to actually going out on a real 1 on 1 date that I intend to pay for, only 1. I'm pretty picky and have always felt like I'd be wasting my time to ask a perfect stranger on a date or to go on a blind date or whatever. Now girls Im talking with to find out if I may be interested in investing a lot of time in? As many as I can find that are attractive and clever
Barky Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 Yeah, that's totally on the same level as sleeping with multiple people but not telling the ones who are sticking around for a while that you're banging other chicks, too. All right, fair enough. But to answer the original question, Yes, deceit is what it takes for me, and the vast majority of men, to date lots of women at the same time. Hell, that's what it takes even for the rich and famous--ask Tiger Woods.
tami-chan Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 ...says the woman wearing makeup, false eyelashes, hair coloring... wait... I am a bit confused why you seem to take issue about something you yourself alluded to....did I misunderstand you? Oh and get it right...I do not wear false eyelashes...and have stopped dyeing my hair.... but I like to pretend I am tall....I wear 4 inch heels! Obviously, the men do not notice that ever! and when they find out I am really petite and do not have naturally light purplish eyelids and pinkish cheeks, they totally feel deceived!
skydiveaddict Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 ...says the woman wearing makeup, false eyelashes, hair coloring... Is that all you have? Quit messing with people Especially my friends.
Barky Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 wait... I am a bit confused why you seem to take issue about something you yourself alluded to....did I misunderstand you? See the post above yours. I was merely poking fun at you. Yes, it requires deception, and lots of it
johan Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 Bahahha... That is what I call a great title! Actually, all i'm getting at here is my leading question: Men, how many women at once do you typically "juggle" (ha ha) at once? Aren't I witty.:laugh::laugh: You look familiar to me.
USMCHokie Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 IMO the guys, who do not want to multidate, are guys in 20s. Generally, from what I know from dating online, the desire to multidate increases with age. At age 40-50, all men do multidating online. I guess when men older than 55, they have troubles to multidate online because nobody wants to date them. I can't even get one, let alone more than one...so getting even one is a big deal for me...
Author marsle85 Posted March 13, 2010 Author Posted March 13, 2010 ...says the woman wearing makeup, false eyelashes, hair coloring... Well that's not a very good debate. For one, I don't know many women who sport fake eye lashes on a consistent basis, and two- makeup is a much of a "lie" as telling someone you work out 5 days a week when you work out 3. You're just fluffing your own feathers. You look familiar to me. Ummm.... hah
PhillyDude Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 I try to have 3 girls in my "rotation" at all times. 1 long term, 1 medium term and 1 short term. And yes I'm sleeping with all of them. The short term slot has a high turnover, mid-term slower, long-term slowest. I drop the short term and stick with 2 women when I'm low on cash. But I get nervous in this position because if one dumps me them I'm down to one. 4 is just too damn many for me, usually, though I will have a ONS with a 4th girl but try to break it off quick after that because I just can't do four girlfriends at the same time. You just gave me a great idea-lol But in my case the short term would be for fetish activity only while the other 2 would be more for dating.
Tres Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 Me...? 26... I guess your future is bright, by age 40 you are going to multidate 3-4 hot girls. Just practice because practice makes perfect.
Woggle Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 I could maybe 3 but 4 or even 5 if you give me some anorexics that don't weigh too much.
linwood Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 IMO the guys, who do not want to multidate, are guys in 20s. Generally, from what I know from dating online, the desire to multidate increases with age. At age 40-50, all men do multidating online. I guess when men older than 55, they have troubles to multidate online because nobody wants to date them. Not in my experience. In my 20`s I juggled numerous women (You don`t have to do it dishonestly either). The older I got the less I needed so many women. I`m down to 1 now..long term .
homersheineken Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 Oh, so are you saying that the only way you can have a date is to be deceitful? You know, if you are honest, some women will take what you can offer....or not... I don't see this as being deceitful. I assume the other person is dating/seeing other people and that they think the same of me. Isn't that why you either have the relationship talk/start calling each other BF/GF to tell each other (and potential others) that you are no longer seeing other people?
tami-chan Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 I don't see this as being deceitful. I assume the other person is dating/seeing other people and that they think the same of me. Isn't that why you either have the relationship talk/start calling each other BF/GF to tell each other (and potential others) that you are no longer seeing other people? hmmm...I was not responding to you-the post was for what's-his-name, who said he has a long term relationship,a mid-term and a short-term-and actually admitted that he is being deceitful... But I think I understand why you would think of it that way..it makes it easier to rationalize/justify your actions.
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