marsle85 Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 Bahahha... That is what I call a great title! Actually, all i'm getting at here is my leading question: Men, how many women at once do you typically "juggle" (ha ha) at once? Aren't I witty.:laugh::laugh:
MrNate Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 is a woman who juggles several men at a time also a clown?
Rearden Metal Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 At a low level of interest, meaning maybe we've spoken a few times and are about to date or have had one date, I might have 2-3 girls I'm talking to. Once one of them gets moderately serious, I cut off the others.
homersheineken Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 Bahahha... That is what I call a great title! Actually, all i'm getting at here is my leading question: Men, how many women at once do you typically "juggle" (ha ha) at once? Aren't I witty.:laugh::laugh: How many women do I juggle? I guess it depends on the size of the jugs
bac Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 I especially like those guys who multidate and at the same time enjoy to have a serious exclusivity talk with each girl about how exclusivity earlier in dating is important to them.
Leia Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 How many women do I juggle? I guess it depends on the size of the jugs :lmao:
5105571 Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 that all depends on how annoyed we are with the ones we are currently seeing. Honestly, it depends on the guy. Me, only one or two...but I'm not a compulsive dater.
Barky Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 I try to have 3 girls in my "rotation" at all times. 1 long term, 1 medium term and 1 short term. And yes I'm sleeping with all of them. The short term slot has a high turnover, mid-term slower, long-term slowest. I drop the short term and stick with 2 women when I'm low on cash. But I get nervous in this position because if one dumps me them I'm down to one. 4 is just too damn many for me, usually, though I will have a ONS with a 4th girl but try to break it off quick after that because I just can't do four girlfriends at the same time.
tami-chan Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 How many women do I juggle? I guess it depends on the size of the jugs so just two or four?
tami-chan Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 I try to have 3 girls in my "rotation" at all times. 1 long term, 1 medium term and 1 short term. And yes I'm sleeping with all of them. The short term slot has a high turnover, mid-term slower, long-term slowest. I drop the short term and stick with 2 women when I'm low on cash. But I get nervous in this position because if one dumps me them I'm down to one. 4 is just too damn many for me, usually, though I will have a ONS with a 4th girl but try to break it off quick after that because I just can't do four girlfriends at the same time. do the women know they are part of your rotating harem?
skydiveaddict Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 One girl that I really care about is all I want
Barky Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 do the women know they are part of your rotating harem? Well I certainly don't tell them. And I don't ask if I'm part of a harem of their own.
tami-chan Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 Well I certainly don't tell them. And I don't ask if I'm part of a harem of their own. Ahh...ok....I am not sure if women have harems..but I think I know what you mean. But why wouldn't you tell them? are you afraid that they would leave you?
Barky Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 are you afraid that they would leave you? Sure am......
tami-chan Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 Sure am...... Here, I thought you were one of those guys who is so sure of himself-the "this is who I am , take it or leave it" type....oh well...
Barky Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 Here, I thought you were one of those guys who is so sure of himself-the "this is who I am , take it or leave it" type....oh well... Yeah if I wanted to go dateless I'd do that
skydiveaddict Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 Yeah if I wanted to go dateless I'd do that I don't agree @ some point you gatta be your own man
Tres Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 I try to have 3 girls in my "rotation" at all times. 1 long term, 1 medium term and 1 short term. And yes I'm sleeping with all of them. The short term slot has a high turnover, mid-term slower, long-term slowest. What are your criteria of a long-term girl? (a short-term girl?) Do you chose them for the terms random or based on some qualities?
Barky Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 I don't agree @ some point you gatta be your own man Then do what works for you.
Barky Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 What are your criteria of a long-term girl? (a short-term girl?) Do you chose them for the terms random or based on some qualities? I have no specific list of "criteria" for the women I date. There are some women who stick around for years, some who stick around for months, and some who stick around for days. And of course some who don't stick around past the first date. They tend to sort themselves into the categories. The only ones I 'dump' are the ones where the sex is bad. Or shall I say I encourage them to dump me. I just say, "I don't think we have any sexual chemistry," and they're out the door faster than a bullet. It's amazing. If a guy wants a girl to go away, that's the magic line. And of course if it doesn't seem that the woman is going to put out quickly then I get her out of my life asap.
Tres Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 One... IMO the guys, who do not want to multidate, are guys in 20s. Generally, from what I know from dating online, the desire to multidate increases with age. At age 40-50, all men do multidating online. I guess when men older than 55, they have troubles to multidate online because nobody wants to date them.
Barky Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 IMO the guys, who do not want to multidate, are guys in 20s. Generally, from what I know from dating online, the desire to multidate increases with age. I agree. Men in their 20s have still bought into the socially induced "must only date one at a time" idea. As men age they realize that it's much better for them to multidate. Plus, older men have tighter 'game' and are able to attract women better. I was lucky to have a single girlfriend at a time in my 20s. It wasn't till my 30s that I started building a rotation.
Lizzie60 Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 Hahaha.. I have a fairly large 'stable' of studs.. (from age 27 to 49) They all know I am single and free.. no commitment is our 'rule'...
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