ashlee Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 ok so this is kind of a long story. i have been with my boyfriend for about for years we have a 2 yr olddaughter together so we are trying to make things work. both from broken homes we dont want it for our daughter. anyways, the past year has been really rough we were together like 6 months last year. we moved out of our apt he moved with hos mom i moved with my gma. well the first time we broke up (may) i kinda was talking to this old friend from school so i really didnt take it that hard. and my bf did so he had sex with this girl to get back at me his excuse was because i cheated on him the very first like 2 wks we were together (i was only 17 and didnt care for a relationship at the time) and he wanted to hurt me. ok we got back together in august and got a new apt together then broke up in oct. he had sex with 2 other girls in our apt. on our couches then had lots of other girls over here just to hang out idk if i believe that story but w/e. the only reason i found out about these girls he had sex with is because some one that works with him told me. i was and still very very hurt he lied to me i had asked him i he had done anything with anyone else and he said no. i had told him the truth about what i did i had been dating someone just one person i had sex with. but he is using this stupid excuse that i cheated on him so he wanted to get even i just dont understand that happened like 4 yrs ago. and now he want to bring it up. i just know know if i should be mad at him for having sex with these girls and bringing them to our apt right after we had just broke up. and he works with them everyday i feel stupid just walking in there knowing that he touched them and kissed them it just makes me SICK! but we were broken up but it still hurt me.. idk what to do anymore i feel like im overreacting butidk. advice please oh we are back together since jan everything has been extremely good well besides the day i found out that he indeed had sex with these ppl... i just want this to work out and so does he but idk if i can get ouver the fact that he's had sex with other girls ughhhh... *TEAR*
jnj express Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 this is a no--brainer----this guy you are with is loco---what is gonna happen is, everytime you have a disagreement---he is gonna go out and find some woman to have sex with. He wants you to stay straight and narrow, but he wants to be able play if he doesn't like what is happeneing. You having sex with some guy two weeks into meeting your BF, is not like you were in any kind of relationship. Get far far away from this guy, he is way to unstable--he will just make you unhappy the whole time you are with him. He is nothing but a big baby, who needs to grow up.
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