SoFab Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 Hello all - I'm new here I'm sure I've been dealing with a lot of what you all have dealt with, I'm right there with you. So here's my story. I promise this won't be long and drawn out. I've been dating a guy since summer last year. We were so incredibly into each other. We had some problems, most are way too complex to even begin to explain. But we were working through them and communicating very well. We liked each other so much that we were convinced we could get through it. We went out one night last week and had a great time. Things were fine. But then the next day after our night out, he didn't speak to me. Then another day passed, and another, and yet no word from him. This was shocking to me, we talked ALL the time. Every morning, afternoon, and night. He is now ignoring me. As silly as this sounds, he even deleted me from facebook at this point. And I honestly have no clue as to why. I've tried asking him, but after no response, I've left him alone. I've lost my best friend, I feel so empty. To make things worse, we are in the same group of friends. My friends say they don't know what his deal is, but I bet even if they did, they wouldn't tell me. I don't expect them to, they don't need to get in the middle. But now I'm stuck being in complete shock, confusion and I'm hurt. I'm having a hard time dealing with this. I'm always crying. I feel no need to go out. I can't even be around my friends, they are always with the guy that's ignoring me now. Work is miserable. My appetite sucks. Basically, I'm clueless on how to get over this situation. I feel that this healing process will take forever since we have the same friends. It's inevitable that I'll see him or hear stories about him. It hurts to even know about what he's up to or who he talks to. I'm not sure how to handle it. Any creative ideas or similar stories to help me get through this without delaying this whole healing process? I'm so tired of being upset about this!
monkeymaid Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 Honestly. ...**** that guy. really though, hes spooked for some reason, and is on the run. how old are you guys? You can wait and see if he gets in touch, or just start moving on. ...its kinda up to you. try to stay centered as you dont know whats happening, and if he cant show you the proper respect of an explanation, then be glad you are rid of him
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