so_mo34 Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 so i've been seeing this guy from work since the summer. i am 22, he is 35. i fell for him, but i knew he was just using me. for the first couple months i couldn't really tell. one night he acted really affectinate and he never did before. i remember him holding my hand for a bit and was caressing my face during sex. then he started acting weird around me at work before he left on vacation. i thought maybe he liked me. when he got back from his vacation, he didn't contact me for like a month and a half even though we would still flirt at work but he wasn't texting me. so he randomly texts me again one day then it started becoming obvious that he wanted sex. he would start sending messages like "wanna ****", etc. but stupid me would still go see him because i liked him so much and just kept hoping. then he didn't contact me for 2 weeks. then he did again. then i got fed up and knew i had to stop seeing him. i tried really hard but ended up kissing him at work. then he texted me last night asking me to go over. i said ok, but then he said that i couldn't sleep over that night cause he needed his sleep. i got upset because he just wanted to **** me and have me leave. so i didn't reply to his text. he kept texting and calling me non-stop for like an hour and i kept ignoring it. then i talk to him and he says i can sleep over. can someone please try and help me figure out what is up with this guy? it's mixed signals central.
Bejita463 Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 What is mixed about these signals? Seems to me that he is making his intentions very clear. You are a vagina to him.
SomewhatExperienced Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 Uhhh, this is pretty obvious. The guys a creep looking for sex. That's it. He doesn't care about you. Probably the only reason he said you could sleep over the next time was cuz he could sense you were pissed about the time he tossed you out and hopes this move will ensure more sex in the future.
txsilkysmoothe Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 No mixed signals at all - he just wants sex and he doesn't even want it regularly. He let you spend the night because he wanted sex bad enough that he was willing to put with you in his bed all night. Please don't let him use you anymore.
TouchedByViolet Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 I have never understood girls like you so_mo34. Did you have a traumatic event in childhood or are you just an idiot?
MalachiX Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 It's not really a mixed signal. He thinks of you as a booty call. If you're not 'OK' with that then you really should stop seeing him. If you're fine with that continue. Just please don't try to convince yourself that he's giving you any signals beyond, "I'm using you for sex."
JustLooking123 Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 I agree with the others who responded. His signals aren't mixed at all. He only wants you for sex. Done.
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