benjimaple87 Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 I just dont know what to do anymore. I cant stop thinking about my ex that broke up with me ten damn years ago. I'm married to a wonderful woman and yet i loose sleep at night because I dont know how to stop thinking about her. we were together for just under 4 years and ive tried to get her back over and over again with no success. She staight out told me we will never be together and yet i still feel empty because shes not with me. I dont know what i did i didnt cheat i wasnt abusive she might of cheated on me but i dont really know and yet i still miss her. Ive read all the damn books ive got out there and done things i actually live a pretty good and interesting life but i still think how much better it would be with her. i dont know what to do its been so long for me to feel this way.
EvergreenD Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 I hear you man. I think thats how its going to be with me and my girl. We broke up over a year ago and I still think about her like crazy. Shes with this total d-bag now and it just hurts me to see them together. I dont know what I did wrong either...man.. i feel ya.
Ilovecake Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 I was sort of like that with an ex of mine. We broke up 13 years a go. I always thought I let go of a perfect man for a really stupid selfish reason, and kicked myself for breaking up with him. Last spring he came to town and I got to meat up with him for the first time since we broke up. I realized why we were no longer together and that mostly I put him up on a pedestal in my head and truthfully he is not as great as I made him out to be in my head. Now I actually like his wife more than I like him.
Recommended Posts