persian_femme Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 I cheat on my girlfriend for the first time EVER... I feel so horrible and ashamed and to make things worst it was with a male co-worker. I've been together with my girlfriend for 6 years and we've known each other for over 10 years. I don't know if I should tell her or just it pass. I definitely don't want to be with the guy or even have anything to do with him. I just wanted to experience what it would be with a male. PLEASE HELP!!!
nobmagnet Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 I cheat on my girlfriend for the first time EVER... I feel so horrible and ashamed and to make things worst it was with a male co-worker. I've been together with my girlfriend for 6 years and we've known each other for over 10 years. I don't know if I should tell her or just it pass. I definitely don't want to be with the guy or even have anything to do with him. I just wanted to experience what it would be with a male. PLEASE HELP!!! Oh my. I am afraid i cannot help much. I was cheated on. However.......how old are you? if you dont mind me asking:o It is maybe understandable your curiosity but to actually go through with it was quite wrong as you have admitted. To admit or not to admit......thats soooooo difficult. I would suggest you ask yourself why you did it. Will it ever happen again? woman/man. if you come to the realisation that no, you have learnt from this terrible disrespect then i would maybe keep it to me, but i would suggest you look into why it happend in the first place. Nobby xxx
Author persian_femme Posted March 8, 2010 Author Posted March 8, 2010 First, Thanks nobmagnet, for your response. I don't see what my age has to do with anything but Im 37. It was more of curiosity than anything. I am nor was every attracted to him. He has always been one women at the office talk about so I don't know if that had anything to do with it. I have no interest in men whatsoever and I am sure anything like this would happen again. I will not allow it. I know I can't be angry with myself forever. But today its just so overwhelming.
nobmagnet Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 im sorry yes i maybe thought you were young and curious. i know nothing! well i suppose I might be shot down but if you are sure it was a mistake then keep it to you. fess here. I beleive you when you say it was a mistake. I am not too sure how it would help if you fessed to her. Just me thoughts Nobby xx
stillafool Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 I cheat on my girlfriend for the first time EVER... I feel so horrible and ashamed and to make things worst it was with a male co-worker. I've been together with my girlfriend for 6 years and we've known each other for over 10 years. I don't know if I should tell her or just it pass. I definitely don't want to be with the guy or even have anything to do with him. I just wanted to experience what it would be with a male. PLEASE HELP!!! You need to tell her what you have done. I am sure she does not want to be exposed to STD's. You owe it to her to tell the truth of what you did and why.
sacg Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 (edited) When i read this i assumed you were young. You need to take a long hard look at this, at 37, its hardly "whats it like" material. And, yes, i think you need to talk to your partner. Good luck and best wishes. EDIT: I think i ***ed up, your a female right? Edited March 8, 2010 by sacg
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