thatguy100 Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 I recently got dumped by a girl who I felt was a great girl. She said to me, not to get your hopes up or anything of us getting back together, but you are the type of guy I would like to settle down with, Then the next thing she said ... your good with kids, your just an overall great guy. But she does not love me anymore and such. So I have moved along alright, I am happy most of the time, she is on my mind at night and stuff, I knew that this would happen. But when I think of dating, and the only thing which runs through my head and heart is ... "No you don't want to date, its just not the time, its just not right, you don't have time to date." I don't know what to do.
Fouts Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 As far as your ex, she was just letting you down easy, so don't waste too much time wondering about her. Moving on is hard, take it one day at a time, get out and have some fun with your friends, go out on coffee dates, even if the girl isn't someone you find overly attractive. Keep yourself busy.
Author thatguy100 Posted March 8, 2010 Author Posted March 8, 2010 I just need to say, we broke up once before, and this is almost a carbon copy of what she had said before, and exactly the same circumstances of our last break up, like it was a carbon copy of our previous break up. I just think she is tied between what she wants now and the future. I don't know ... I just think I need more time to pass before I consider doing something like that.
ADF Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 You know what might help? Getting angry. No joke. This woman is horribly cruel. How DARE she say that you're just the type of guy she'd like to settle down with, but then add, "but don't get your hopes up about us getting back together." What??? What kind of double-talk is that? She should be ashamed of herself.
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