shelovesyou Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 to sum it up. my ex left me for someone else out of the blue we had had a few arguments but other than that we were fine so it really was out of the blue we were together over a year and split 3 months ago. he has had a new gf for the past 3 months. he has done many things to suggest that im not far from his thoughts whether it be getting his friends to message me and wind me up etc. but he hasnt directly spoke to me and ignored all my attempts to cntact him. is there a chance he will come back? is it wrong to hope?
Fouts Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 Is there a chance he'll come back? Yes, when/if the new relationship fails, he'll seek a familiar comfort in you. Will it last? No, he'll always be looking for your replacement. Some couples go back and forth like this for quite awhile because they don't have the strength to be alone. The breakups only get more painful each time before it finally ends. Stop waiting and meet a new man who truly wants you and wants to be with you, he's out there.
ADF Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 I don't know if it is "wrong" to hope, but it sounds like a BAD idea. You say this guy ditched you out of the blue after being with you for a year? I promise you it didn't happen that way. You only found about about it at the last minute. Clearly, he was on the prowl much longer. This man treated you like garbage. If you give him a chance to do so again, he will. Kick him to the curb already.
DustySaltus Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 Why would you ever want to be with someone that thought of you as SECOND best. There's nothing wrong with hope but it needs to be directed towards something that's worthy of it. Based upon his actions he's not worthy of it. Focus your energies on yourself and tell his friends to stop contacting you.
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