one goal Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 You might recall Ive posted about the hot chick at work I have a crush on. Well I haven't seen her at work for almost a month now. She was out of work a couple weeks cause her back or something hurt again, but I "think" they finally shtcanned her from what I understand, one of my bosses wouldn't tell me. Anyways if that is the case is there anything wrong with messaging her on twitter or facebook? Like I said I dont think she ever uses her facebook, and twitter she twits once in a blue moon. Anything wrong with just messaging her and ask her out? I mean nothing to lose if she doesn't work with me anymore. Also which is better to use? I mean with facebook if she uses the same email addy she signed up with then it still goes to her email, twitter if I tweet her she might not read it for a long time.
Bejita463 Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 Asking someone out online that you did not meet online is lame. She's going to think you're a coward and she's going to be right. If asking her face to face isn't possible anymore, there is a pretty high likelihood you've lost your chance. Any attempt is better than none, but I pointed out the error for future reference.
Author one goal Posted March 8, 2010 Author Posted March 8, 2010 Well I didn't get a chance to ask her out in person.
DustySaltus Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 If that's the only way you can get in contact with her than you have no choice. I think that calling her would be the best option if you do have her number though. What are you going to do?
Author one goal Posted March 8, 2010 Author Posted March 8, 2010 If that's the only way you can get in contact with her than you have no choice. I think that calling her would be the best option if you do have her number though. What are you going to do? I dont have her number. Im trying to decide if twitter or facebook is better. She like never uses her facebook though but when u message someone it still goes to their email addy also. But I dunno if she used her school email or not. If so she wont see it then.
DustySaltus Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 I dont have her number. Im trying to decide if twitter or facebook is better. She like never uses her facebook though but when u message someone it still goes to their email addy also. But I dunno if she used her school email or not. If so she wont see it then. Send it to facebook. Leave your number and let fate prevail.
Bejita463 Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 Well I didn't get a chance to ask her out in person. How so? You've spoken to her before, yes?
Author one goal Posted March 8, 2010 Author Posted March 8, 2010 How so? You've spoken to her before, yes? I wasnt ready to ask her out then.
Author one goal Posted March 8, 2010 Author Posted March 8, 2010 So guys should I just contact her at both or would she find that obsessive?
tigressA Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t221465/ http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t218923/ http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t214965/ He's obsessed and it's major-league creepy.
Author one goal Posted March 8, 2010 Author Posted March 8, 2010 Im not creepy. I just want to get to know her better. She is very hot, but I really love her personality a lot. Shes a very nice person.
bayouboi Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 don't lissen 2 these naysayers 1gaol. u should twitter & fb & find a 3rd more successful way of communicating 2 her ur desire 2 date her.
harmfulsweetz Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 I'd message her on both twitter and facebook, and better still, message her boyfriend too, and explain how you are so much better for her than he is. On a more serious note, yes you are a creep. She has shown no interest in you, has a boyfriend and yet you continue to pursue her. It may be slightly different had she shown some interest in you, in that it would be understandable why you are like this, but she hasn't, so yeah, you're a creep.
Author one goal Posted March 8, 2010 Author Posted March 8, 2010 I'd message her on both twitter and facebook, and better still, message her boyfriend too, and explain how you are so much better for her than he is. On a more serious note, yes you are a creep. She has shown no interest in you, has a boyfriend and yet you continue to pursue her. It may be slightly different had she shown some interest in you, in that it would be understandable why you are like this, but she hasn't, so yeah, you're a creep. That doesn't mean she wouldn;t have said "yes" What do you mean by shown interest? She is always nice to me and that stuff. Im pretty sure she doesn't work there anymore. Shes just so hot, but I like her personality. Shes funny, polite and friendly most of the time.
xpaperxcutx Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 That doesn't mean she wouldn;t have said "yes" What do you mean by shown interest? She is always nice to me and that stuff. Im pretty sure she doesn't work there anymore. Shes just so hot, but I like her personality. Shes funny, polite and friendly most of the time. Sorry to say but you sound like you're 15 or something. Get this straight- nice does not equate to interest. Furthermore, twittering or facebooking her is like calling her when she hasn't given you her number. It's makes you come off as desperate, creepy, and stalkerish.
Author one goal Posted March 8, 2010 Author Posted March 8, 2010 I dont understand. I simply just want to get to know her better. its usually the guy who asked the girl out, not the other way around.
Author one goal Posted March 12, 2010 Author Posted March 12, 2010 So shes using her twitter again I see. She twitted shes "enjoying her time off with her bf" and that. So I wonder if maybe she wasn;t fired. Hmm. But she still has a boyfriend though. At least I know I can send her a tweet now when I decide to. This sucks. I've been shutout again!
likestolaugh Posted March 12, 2010 Posted March 12, 2010 why don't the mods just ban this troll? It's the same thing over and over.
harmfulsweetz Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 Yeah, give her your number, but I'd still say just show up outside her home, wearing a belted mac, trilby and sunglasses, the whole stalked thing really is a turn on. :love:
Author one goal Posted March 13, 2010 Author Posted March 13, 2010 Well someone told me they think she quitted or let go. Anyways I just sent her some tweets and gave her my cell number asking her if she wants to go out to dinner and added her. We will see how this goes.
Golfilla Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 OMG, I can't believe you're STILL running this troll!!! I would have thought you might have got some new material by now. Surely you're not THAT pathetic!
Author one goal Posted March 13, 2010 Author Posted March 13, 2010 Here is what I sent her. Whats up? Its xxx from work. Looked u up on here cause I have not seen u in awhile and figured u quit or something. How are u? I Was wondering since we dont get to talk alot if maybe I could take u out to dinner or go do something sometime. Im on springbreak next week so if u wanna do something with me my cell number is xxx. Take care
PhillyDude Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 A female friend asked out a guy on facebook that she knew of but not really knew so go ahead and ask her out.
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