JustJoe Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 Like many OM's, at first it was all sex, but as the time went by the affection grew and for a while she was with me more than with her husband. Do I regret it, no, I loved her, still do. The hell of it is that I KNOW that at some level she loves me too. But she loves his money , more.
on1wheel Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 You should be ashamed of yourself, yet you aren't. As someone that has lived through an affair that my W had I can assure you that your H will be devastated if he finds out. 13 of 15 years??? Why even bother living a lie that long?
Author always_searching Posted March 9, 2010 Author Posted March 9, 2010 Come on, folks--I didn't ask the question so that people who answered it would get flogged for doing so! I understand this is an open form, but can't we keep this judgment free? There are plenty of threads on LS bashing OM/OW/affairs in general.
delirious Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 Can I just say what the hell kind of picture is that for an avatar, looks like you have been murdered? It is quite disturbing, please could you change it.
Author always_searching Posted March 9, 2010 Author Posted March 9, 2010 (edited) Can I just say what the hell kind of picture is that for an avatar, looks like you have been murdered? It is quite disturbing, please could you change it. WAHAHAHA! I've come back from the dead to haunt you! Actually, that was a Halloween picture from a couple of years back--it's my favorite holiday, and it's a picture of me that I can put up and still stay somewhat anonymous. So, I'm sorry it disturbs you, but I don't think I will. Maybe...I'll see if I have any other pics of me that I could use, if you are in earnest about your being disturbed. Edited March 9, 2010 by always_searching
confusedinkansas Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 My reason: Long story short - We were going thru a very dreadful time in our marriage. We'd been to hell & back one other time before, but this time it seemed we may not make it. Finding someone that could "take me away from the madness" not on a literal basis, but several times a week for a few hours at a time, was the best thing for ME. Regrets? Nope. I learned a great deal. We're better for it & the multitude of other things that were being dumped on us at the time. We SURVIVED!
Author always_searching Posted March 9, 2010 Author Posted March 9, 2010 Finding someone that could "take me away from the madness" not on a literal basis, but several times a week for a few hours at a time, was the best thing for ME. *sigh* I wish I could find someone to take away my madness! I have to make due with my Marlboro Lights and prayer--sadly, neither is working as well as I'd hoped.
ladydesigner Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 For a short time in my life, it was a kink to have affairs with MW. I finally stopped when I developed my own circle of f/w/b and I came to the conclusion that MW were to easy, no challange. No regrets at all, in fact I believe in revenge affairs, as it worked for me. 2.50 a gallon looks like we are the vengeful kind:laugh: I have no regrets about having the A in my sense of revenge. I do regret falling for my A partner. I should have kept the revenge A a revenge. It's not only MW that are easy but vulnerable people in general. I knew my XOM had a crush on me so I knew it would be easy to have my revenge affair with him.
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