tiffleigh5 Posted March 7, 2010 Posted March 7, 2010 I have been seeing someone now for a couple of months. When we first started dating we both agreed to take it slow because we were getting out of relationships. We have a lot of fun together and have an amazing intimate relationship. I am starting to develop real feelings for him and so I brought up us taking it slow and if that is still what he wanted? He responded with yes and said he really has a good time with me but what we have now is all he can offer me right now. I would eventually like to have him as my boyfriend. We see each other a few times a week but we also work together so we see each other at work as well. My question is whether or not I should wait for him to come around or should I cut my losses and move on?
DrGonzo Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 Well, sounds like you want him. So take it slow, but don't get too invested in him either. Might be too late for that, eh? Ok now it's your turn, read my post and advise me! Doc
tami-chan Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 I have been seeing someone now for a couple of months. When we first started dating we both agreed to take it slow because we were getting out of relationships. We have a lot of fun together and have an amazing intimate relationship. I am starting to develop real feelings for him and so I brought up us taking it slow and if that is still what he wanted? He responded with yes and said he really has a good time with me but what we have now is all he can offer me right now. I would eventually like to have him as my boyfriend. We see each other a few times a week but we also work together so we see each other at work as well. My question is whether or not I should wait for him to come around or should I cut my losses and move on? Don't you just hate it when this happens? when the feelings do not develop in tandem? Anyway, I say, give him time...after all, you guys did agree to take it slow..I say, 6 months...
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