Author Tinkerbelll Posted March 11, 2010 Author Posted March 11, 2010 Thank you all.. I really appreciate your advice. At this stage, it's just unuseful to state I was wrong, he was wrong etc.. It's incredibly difficult, I just go on day by day.. I am sure he's moving on, no news from him so far and a month has gone since we split. It's just pain. Pain. Pain. Calling him is a damage I don't want to inflict to myself, we all know that while I am here sharing my pain with LS, he's busy doing his life. I hope it will gett better, the sooner the better.
Author Tinkerbelll Posted March 14, 2010 Author Posted March 14, 2010 How weird.. Yesterday I was with the girls at a club when he suddently arrived. He just couldn't act, he appeared to me so demaged, hurt..I have no words. He's usually fun, always smiling and partying..I could barely recognize him. Of course, he didn't talk to me..he just said me hallo and I could see so much pain in that sight I was sad for me, really. I just thought he was having the best time of his life, according to what he's been saying around lately. So today I MANAGED TO BROKE NC AFTER ONE MONTH, with this text: seeing you it's always painful, have a good day love. He answered, yes it's difficult..I behaved correctly, don't you think? Even if sometimes I had a look at you. Have a good day little love. Any insight?
monkeymaid Posted March 14, 2010 Posted March 14, 2010 i just read that last post. ...sounds like you both are trying to get your bearings straight. he doesnt want you to look down on him for not being strong, so he puts on a face. ...you want him to think that you dont need him. ...sounds to me like you are both looking for some sort of validation from the other. call him, sit down with him, talk to him, and if its there, love him
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