chloe1408 Posted March 7, 2010 Posted March 7, 2010 my ex left me for another girl 3 months ago. he has been vile to me ever since and when i finally say we should clear the air, he ignores me. he has accused me of cheating sat outside my house stalking me had his mates winding me up so why does he get to be with his new girlfriend, take her on holidays, say he loves her, while i'm trying to rebuild my life. he clearly doesnt miss me or have any regrets. how is this fair?
nowomanocry Posted March 7, 2010 Posted March 7, 2010 my ex left me for another girl 3 months ago. he has been vile to me ever since and when i finally say we should clear the air, he ignores me. he has accused me of cheating sat outside my house stalking me had his mates winding me up so why does he get to be with his new girlfriend, take her on holidays, say he loves her, while i'm trying to rebuild my life. he clearly doesnt miss me or have any regrets. how is this fair? Read my new thread on Long distance relationships [COLOR=#990000]3weeks of no contact with ex...[/COLOR] Wellcome to the club hun xx
LucreziaBorgia Posted March 7, 2010 Posted March 7, 2010 You get a happily ever after also. It requires but one thing: to exorcise this guy out of your life. Think of how sh*tty he is being to you right now. Do you think that the other girl has really 'won' anything? Just a guy who knows how to sufficiently cover up his real nature enough to fool others. She'll see what is under that mask soon enough. Hopefully you will get to the point where you realize that you didn't lose this guy, you escaped from him and will be able to move on and consider other men out there who will treat you far better than this guy would treat you or any other girl for that matter.
paleblue Posted March 7, 2010 Posted March 7, 2010 Chloe, its not fair and it sucks. sorry you are going thru this. dont get why he is giving you a hard time. i guess it doesnt really matter now. he sounds immature. and you wouldnt want that back in your life anyway. the most important thing right now is for you to learn to focus on you. make yourself feel better. and get him out of your head. Lucrezia. i am constantly impressed at your insight on these posts.
ingridh Posted March 7, 2010 Posted March 7, 2010 ...so why does he get to be with his new girlfriend, take her on holidays, say he loves her, while i'm trying to rebuild my life. he clearly doesnt miss me or have any regrets. how is this fair? Yeah, not fair. I have been asking this question everyday and hating him for almost two months now... Lucrezia. i am constantly impressed at your insight on these posts. Me too, thanks.
just1guy Posted March 7, 2010 Posted March 7, 2010 You get a happily ever after also. It requires but one thing: to exorcise this guy out of your life. Think of how sh*tty he is being to you right now. Do you think that the other girl has really 'won' anything? Just a guy who knows how to sufficiently cover up his real nature enough to fool others. She'll see what is under that mask soon enough. Hopefully you will get to the point where you realize that you didn't lose this guy, you escaped from him and will be able to move on and consider other men out there who will treat you far better than this guy would treat you or any other girl for that matter. This is great advice. Thanks
sneak Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 He’s not happy Chloe it’s all fake.. He sounds immature, but his actions are saying you’re still on his mind. And if you are his new relationship is full of mix feels, confusion, depression, etc. Don’t let him fool you.
dwilliams_22 Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 i guess it gets better with time. i think thats the thing that bother me the most with my break up is that he is happy with someone else or at least i think he is happy with someone else. but one thing i know is that i am special and put up with a lot and i know that with time this chick that he is with is going to look at him like he is a weirdo and maybe he will miss me but by that time i will be completely over him.
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