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OP, sorry to say this but you are not a good objective judge on how your brother looks.

 

He's your brother. We tend to hold those close to us in high esteem.

 

I think your brother is too overconfident (arrogant) in the way he looks. I think he and his GF are equal in the looks department.

 

He wants to trade up because he thinks he looks better.

 

Once again I'm going to state, you cannot objectively judge your brother.

 

Please, I can be an objective judge and I can see how women react to him (but he fails to read the signals). He is not just good looking, he is absolutely, stunningly gorgeous: 6'2" and 170lbs of pure muscle, short mid brown hair and blue eyes, slightly olive skin.. When I post a picture with him on FB, I get a number of PMs of the sort "OMFG who is the hot guy".

 

He CAN and WILL do better. He just needs to be patient rather than enter into these entanglements with girls that are below him in every way.

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Please, I can be an objective judge and I can see how women react to him (but he fails to read the signals). He is not just good looking, he is absolutely, stunningly gorgeous: 6'2" and 170lbs of pure muscle, short mid brown hair and blue eyes, slightly olive skin.. When I post a picture with him on FB, I get a number of PMs of the sort "OMFG who is the hot guy".

 

He CAN and WILL do better. He just needs to be patient rather than enter into these entanglements with girls that are below him in every way.

 

If he is 6'2" and only weights 170lbs, then he cannot possibly be that muscular. That's pretty light for someone so tall.

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Please, I can be an objective judge and I can see how women react to him (but he fails to read the signals). He is not just good looking, he is absolutely, stunningly gorgeous: 6'2" and 170lbs of pure muscle, short mid brown hair and blue eyes, slightly olive skin.. When I post a picture with him on FB, I get a number of PMs of the sort "OMFG who is the hot guy".

 

He CAN and WILL do better. He just needs to be patient rather than enter into these entanglements with girls that are below him in every way.

 

Um... a girl is not "below him in every way" just because she isn't as physically attractive as he is :rolleyes: For one thing, she's probably a more decent and honourable person than he is! His behaviour is unbearably selfish and shallow, and I've learned from experience that physical beauty means very little if the hot person you're dating is a complete d*ck. What will probably happen is that he'll eventually get together with a physically stunning girl, and she'll dump him because he's ugly on the inside.

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Please, I can be an objective judge and I can see how women react to him (but he fails to read the signals). He is not just good looking, he is absolutely, stunningly gorgeous: 6'2" and 170lbs of pure muscle, short mid brown hair and blue eyes, slightly olive skin.. When I post a picture with him on FB, I get a number of PMs of the sort "OMFG who is the hot guy".

 

He CAN and WILL do better. He just needs to be patient rather than enter into these entanglements with girls that are below him in every way.

 

I already explained why you can't. How can you know that every woman is interested in him?? There would sure be misses that you wouldn't know about.

 

Attractiveness is not just about muscle mass, height or hair. I would like to see your brothers face (w/c is the most imp) for objective proof.

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Please, I can be an objective judge and I can see how women react to him (but he fails to read the signals). He is not just good looking, he is absolutely, stunningly gorgeous: 6'2" and 170lbs of pure muscle, short mid brown hair and blue eyes, slightly olive skin.. When I post a picture with him on FB, I get a number of PMs of the sort "OMFG who is the hot guy".

 

He CAN and WILL do better. He just needs to be patient rather than enter into these entanglements with girls that are below him in every way.

 

You're objective only so far. Clearly it's normal to recongonize the attractiveness of our family members and I don't dispute that your brother very well may be quite attractive. However, your brother clearly has numerous faults. He is not better the other people. These girls aren't below him. Just carry different faults themselves. The fact that you say they are below him is slightly creepy.

 

Your brother is up for a rude awakening.

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Sorry, but (from your post) the girl genuinely cares about a person she is with, and doesn't string them along while waiting for someone hotter.

 

That alone, in my opinion, makes her a better person than him. Nobody is expecting you to scold him - it's his life - but you really might want to think twice about defending him.

 

Would you defend a guy who treated you, your sister, or your bff like that?

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He CAN and WILL do better. He just needs to be patient rather than enter into these entanglements with girls that are below him in every way.

 

 

And in the meantime use a woman just because the air is free. :rolleyes:

Your brother acts like a loser, sorry. Who cares what he looks like.

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He sounds like a dbag..But if hes as good looking as you claim he should have no problems women will put up with his bs to have that armcandy..

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Your brother sounds like a superficial person, but if he is as good looking as you say ,maybe I can use him until someone with a better prsonality comes along :)

Its ok if he is not attracted to her. But who does he think he is to have the right to lead someone on?

By the way, no one is below no one just because you are not as good looking. In this case, that person is simply not your type.

But that doesn't mean you should label them as inferior. Makes me wonder who needs to get some help.

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I have a brother who is 28 years old. He says that he is looking to get married and have kids soon and he has been dating a nice girl for about 6 months now.

 

They get along well and I have met her. She is a bit too quiet and eager to please for my taste but otherwise she is very nice, genuine and kind. It is also obvious that she is head over heels in love with my brother.

 

I asked my brother if he thinks he will marry her one day. This was his reply (I kid you not): "I like her personality and she is very affectionate. But I could never marry her because she is just not good looking enough. She is about a 6 out of 10* and I would like to marry an 8 or above. If she were an 8, I would be proposing already".

 

I also asked him if this girl has any clue that he is not that serious about her. He said: "Well, we are exclusive but I don't want to call her a girlfriend so we are not bf/gf, even though she is pushing for that. Also, I don't call her that much and she initiates most contact but we do spend about 3 days a week together (with sleepovers). I am also actively looking to trade up (but she doesn't know that)."

 

It kind of amazes me what the hell goes through this girl's head. She is probably wondering why my bro/her "bf" is hot and cold and doesn't want a real relationship. I bet that the thought that she is not good looking enough and not an 8, doesn't even cross her mind. She probably thinks that at this point in a R, it's not about looks. :rolleyes:

 

It just goes to show that you never what the other person is thinking and why they are acting distant or whatever. Sigh.

 

 

 

 

* this is a fair assessment by my standards too

 

Are you serious? This isn't just a guy thing, I hope women realise this.

 

I've heard this same type of sh*t come out of womens mouths before, too, it's not just a guy thing. In fact, it's more commonplace for a female to look to trade then a guy, IME. All my female friends are constantly one after the other, most of my buddies stick with one or none for extended periods of time.

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Are you serious? This isn't just a guy thing, I hope women realise this.

 

I've heard this same type of sh*t come out of womens mouths before, too, it's not just a guy thing. In fact, it's more commonplace for a female to look to trade then a guy, IME. All my female friends are constantly one after the other, most of my buddies stick with one or none for extended periods of time.

 

I agree - it's not a guy thing, it's just a selfish jerk thing. And selfish jerks come in all shapes, sizes, and genders.

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