Kamille Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 I'm sorry to join the general confusion papercut but... what's going on? I mean, really, what are you struggling to understand here? You're not interested in a guy and you told him so. You said you two could be friends if he felt like it. Punto. So what are you trying to figure out? And there are a few things that are alarming in this thread... Like, really, you don't know the difference between dating and having sex? It's the difference between dating and being FWB. In one scenario, the couple in question is interested in doing activities to get to know the other partner and evaluate if they could be potential partners for a long term relationship. In the other, the onus is on hanging out and having sex with no strings attached. And what do you mean you hadn't planned on having sex? Are you saying you just went along with it but never really were into it? It makes you sound so passive. there's something in all this that makes me think you're really really really afraid of getting hurt and are pretending to be a lot more naive then you really are. You're doing everything you possible can to keep your emotions out of reach. What do you want papercut? Are you looking for love?
Author xpaperxcutx Posted March 9, 2010 Author Posted March 9, 2010 I'm sorry to join the general confusion papercut but... what's going on? I mean, really, what are you struggling to understand here? You're not interested in a guy and you told him so. You said you two could be friends if he felt like it. Punto. So what are you trying to figure out? And there are a few things that are alarming in this thread... Like, really, you don't know the difference between dating and having sex? It's the difference between dating and being FWB. In one scenario, the couple in question is interested in doing activities to get to know the other partner and evaluate if they could be potential partners for a long term relationship. In the other, the onus is on hanging out and having sex with no strings attached. And what do you mean you hadn't planned on having sex? Are you saying you just went along with it but never really were into it? It makes you sound so passive. there's something in all this that makes me think you're really really really afraid of getting hurt and are pretending to be a lot more naive then you really are. You're doing everything you possible can to keep your emotions out of reach. What do you want papercut? Are you looking for love? K, I wish I have an epiphany, but I don't , yet you brought up some good points. I mean what is love anyways? How can I expect myself to give someone 100% of myself if I can't expect the same? I feel selfish sometimes but it's still warranted since most guys like to use me for sex. I had sex with Dave because he wanted to have sex. I did it just to get it over with. I didn't want sex with him yet I still did it out of pity. I feel like a horrible person for thinking this and I convince myself that he's a great guy, but he really isn't. Come to think of it, I'm really repelled by him. He had the audacity to ask me about whether having sex with him was good. I mean what kind of guy asks that unless he has really low self esteem.
alphamale Posted March 9, 2010 Posted March 9, 2010 I don't know what to do. the course of action here is no action xpaperxcutx
Author xpaperxcutx Posted March 9, 2010 Author Posted March 9, 2010 the course of action here is no action xpaperxcutx True. I cleared things though.
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