guest Posted January 9, 2004 Posted January 9, 2004 Can any guys out there tell me somethings to do to see if my bf really does care or if i'm just there for sex and money?! i did the whole not calling thing and he called but yet i feel i need one more thing to trick him to see if he loves me! any clues?
Arabess Posted January 9, 2004 Posted January 9, 2004 I don't think "tricking someone' to see if they really love you would ever be a feasible decision. If you are questioning his motives....there has to be a REASON why you are questioning them. Possibly due to his past actions. If his actions aren't making you happy and are causing you to doubt the basis of the relationship....it would probably be better to stand back and give this one a long look. Loving someone who doesn't make you feel special....is a worthless cause.
CostumeSmile Posted January 9, 2004 Posted January 9, 2004 "Trick" is definitely not the word, I think you meant "Test" his love for you. Now, why would you assume it's only about sex and even more confusing to me "money", do you spoil him too much. Do you make more money then him, do you give him money? Sex comes with the relationship, I'm more worried about why you'd think it was about money. Can you be a little more elaborate.
dyermaker Posted January 10, 2004 Posted January 10, 2004 Cool it on the sex and money for a while, see if he sticks around. (money?)
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