mkimber Posted March 6, 2010 Posted March 6, 2010 Maybe any of you can relate to this because I am soo confused" 5 weeks ago my live-in boyfriend of 10 years told me I needed to leave (his house), that he hasn't been happy for a long time and needed time alone to think about our relationship. COMPLETE shock for me, he had been cranky lately but I thought it was about his job and financial problems! So I left (I am also dealing with a very sick parent as well) to stay with my parents, in completele heartbreak. The next morning he called me back to the hosue and vowed he wanted to work things out after some time alone. In the meantime he told everyone we know that I wasn't living there anymore..but my stuff is still there as I left it AND we are spending time together every few days. When we ARE together things feel great like nothing has happened but then I go to another house at the end of the day. . I still have NO IDEA one month later WHAT his issues with the relationship are, we had what I thought was an enormously happy life together, he acts like everything is fine then hints that he is confused. I know there isn't anybody else, so I am at a loss. Help anybody???
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