Wicker_Parked Posted March 6, 2010 Posted March 6, 2010 (edited) Hi all, My ex girl just left my house this morning, i feel kind of in a grey zone...Ive tried over the past month to get her back over and over and failed. It seemed when i gave up and moved on then it was the only way to make progress. So yesterday night she texts me that she wants to meet up as friends for dinner, and well it goes well, well enough and so today she is dropping me back to my car, and wants to make plans to drive me to the shops, hangout and do more stuff. But i feel like she isnt my girlfriend anymore, i dont need or want the hassle to pursue, i kindly say no and get out of the car and go and get coffee for myself. i jokingly say 'dont call me i will call u' . She drives off. end of story. in the past i would of clung onto anything, we would hangout on a makeup date to the point where we got sick of each often ending in a weird vibe like we were strangers and not even touching or intimacy then spending months of her not returning or giving anything back, me calling her and saying how much of a great time i had, lets hangout etc and the list goes on... even though we both wanted to make it work out. Its funny, im studying and now its my main focus, i feel good, busy, have a direction, empowered, i told her i will call her when i think about her but i dont know if i will. She says its my turn next time to ask me out and that i will get my T-shirt back when i see her next, but i think im going to let her do the chasing for once : ) Edited March 6, 2010 by Wicker_Parked
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