Inflikted Posted March 6, 2010 Posted March 6, 2010 I have a weird problem. I've had it for, well, quite some time, now. I don't know what's causing it, and I don't know how to make it go away. See, I want to be able to date. I want to experience a relationship with a girl, I want that intimacy and closeness. The problem is, though, I just... can't find any girls I could see myself dating. This isn't a new thing for me, either... In my 21 years of life, I've never found a girl I had interest in (well, there was one girl I had very strong feelings for, but... well, don't ask). I've never been on a date, never so much as flirted with a girl. It's driving me crazy. Years keep on passing me by, and no matter what new girls drift into my life, I don't "click" with anyone. I know I'm "still young", but at the same time, I'm not getting any younger, here. Most people in their late 20s are getting ready to settle down, but here I am fast approaching my mid-20s, and I haven't even STARTED dating. How the heck do I stay optimistic? At what point do I just give up, and realize that it's just not happening for me?
TouchedByViolet Posted March 6, 2010 Posted March 6, 2010 yeah, giving up is a great option. Life sucks. You will probably never be happy, and the off chance you finally meet someone who you think will make you happy she will break your heart. Life is cruel and crappy but if you want to cling on to some little piece of hope read on. I would say you should practice talking to all women and being flirtatious with woman you are the slightest attracted to in order to gain some skills. Then maybe you will fall for one of the girls you didn't think you would be so interested in or when you finally meet someone you are interested in you will know what to say and show yourself in a good light.
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