thatguy100 Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 Ok this will be bullet form, but a quick up to date, girlfriend dumped me and said these things: - We don't have enough time for each other, we need to remain focused on school/work and such (I Agreed with this statement) - That its not fair for her to grind with men, also does not want to hurt me anymore than she has. - Does not love me anymore. - That I am the perfect guy, and that she is not looking for a guy like me right now, and wants to go date other men who are not perfect and such. - Don't try and convince her to go back to me right now. - She don't want to get my hopes up or anything, but I'm the type of guy she can see herself settling down with in the future. - That she has not fully moved on from hurting me the last time we broke up, and that she remembers the wrong that she has done to me. I'm just confused on everything that she said, and just want some insight on it. I can't believe/ fully understand what she has said ...
tman666 Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 Ok this will be bullet form, but a quick up to date, girlfriend dumped me and said these things: - We don't have enough time for each other, we need to remain focused on school/work and such (I Agreed with this statement) - That its not fair for her to grind with men, also does not want to hurt me anymore than she has. - Does not love me anymore. - That I am the perfect guy, and that she is not looking for a guy like me right now, and wants to go date other men who are not perfect and such. - Don't try and convince her to go back to me right now. - She don't want to get my hopes up or anything, but I'm the type of guy she can see herself settling down with in the future. - That she has not fully moved on from hurting me the last time we broke up, and that she remembers the wrong that she has done to me. I'm just confused on everything that she said, and just want some insight on it. I can't believe/ fully understand what she has said ... So she's got time to date other guys, but simultaneously doesn't have time for you and school/work? Lame. This is my rough translation of what she said, based on your brief synopsis: "There are some other guys I would like to f*** right now without the effort and emotional commitment required for a meaningful relationship". Ignore all of the "you're the perfect guy" and the "I feel so bad for hurting you" BS. The bottom line is that she doesn't respect you. Never mind the fact that she flat out told you that she doesn't love you anymore. I would be willing to be that she's already been cheating on you, but I wouldn't worry about that at this point. Do yourself a favor and move on with your life, and never talk to her again. It will put you in the driver's seat. You might even find that she tries to come back when she misses her security blanket. Then it will be up to you if you want to make time for her or not.
alphamale Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 I'm just confused on everything that she said, and just want some insight on it. I can't believe/ fully understand what she has said ... basically it means that your relationship with her is over
Author thatguy100 Posted March 5, 2010 Author Posted March 5, 2010 Honestley, I don't know anymore, I'm just dropping it right now, if you try to understand something you don't know, and by the end you still don't know, then just drop it. and alphamale, yes I know that
Author thatguy100 Posted March 5, 2010 Author Posted March 5, 2010 I just wanted an opinion, but thanks guys.
USMCHokie Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 Putting the same stuff from your other threads into bullet form doesn't change the answer everyone is going to give you...reread those previous threads you created...a lot of good information there... But I will reiterate what I told you in your other thread, just to save you some time from having to go back and look for it: "She wants some strange."
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