BetrayedLady Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 Hi I'm back and I think it's over as far as this dead, dull relationship. I have come to the conclusion that I'm not in love with my boyfriend. I don't see him in a romantic way. So must you still even bother telling them the real reason why you're breaking-up? He's the most boring person ever. In addition there had been major trust issues in the past year and he's a lousy lover (has always been). I will be leaving him today within the next hour.
boogieboy Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 Yes, you must tell him the real reason youre breaking up. Let him learn for the next person he dates. You only have to tell him once, and you dont have to listen to him say he wants to try to fix his ways for you. But do the decent thing and tell him hes a lousy lover and boring in general.
Author BetrayedLady Posted March 5, 2010 Author Posted March 5, 2010 Yes, you must tell him the real reason youre breaking up. Let him learn for the next person he dates. You only have to tell him once, and you dont have to listen to him say he wants to try to fix his ways for you. But do the decent thing and tell him hes a lousy lover and boring in general.You know what you're right. I can't even think of a good adjective in the dictionary to describe him. I can really careless if he changes his way or not. I'm no one's fixer-upper. The term for this relationship I can best describe as of now is total indifference.
Author BetrayedLady Posted March 5, 2010 Author Posted March 5, 2010 do what the heart tells..... It's telling me to break up with lousy boyfriend and go back to my long ago decent ex who turned me on all the time. Not only that but he was wonderful on every possible way. There was no trust issues with my ex. He never betrayed me in any way yet I tossed out a worthy one. He's still waiting for me though... has always been so I'm going back to him.
single-n-lonely Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 good for you girl! congratulations on that. most people i know who are not happy with their boyfriends just continue not being happy. including me! so i am very happy for you. i wish you the best!
paleblue Posted March 6, 2010 Posted March 6, 2010 he is that boring? seriously? dam. well hey if he isnt even at least passionate in the sack than what the hell gotta have a little something interesting going on. regarding the one you tossed away i hope you are being for real and not just playing hop-scotch. cause that would be bullllll sh**********
spriggig Posted March 6, 2010 Posted March 6, 2010 Yeah, it's probably all him. I mean, I'm sure you were just a disinterested third party observer in all this. Oh well, on to the next one. BTW, any chance you found him interesting and confident at the beginning, or did you ALWAYS find him boring and dull. Just asking.
start-fresh Posted March 6, 2010 Posted March 6, 2010 Yeah, it's probably all him. I mean, I'm sure you were just a disinterested third party observer in all this. Oh well, on to the next one. BTW, any chance you found him interesting and confident at the beginning, or did you ALWAYS find him boring and dull. Just asking. It's obviously the man's job to entertain in a relationship.
carhill Posted March 6, 2010 Posted March 6, 2010 Backstory I would strongly suggest, if you break up with current BF, to not immediately become involved with past BF. Much has changed since HS (old flame, whom you broke up with) and you were cheated on in this current R. Take your time. No rush. You're young
Author BetrayedLady Posted March 7, 2010 Author Posted March 7, 2010 he is that boring? seriously? dam. well hey if he isnt even at least passionate in the sack than what the hell gotta have a little something interesting going on.I just want to update on my current situation. We are both broken up as of yesterday and it's been a relieve for me. I feel free at last and have recontacted my ex boyfriend from the past. regarding the one you tossed away i hope you are being for real and not just playing hop-scotch. cause that would be bullllll sh**********I really want to be with my high school sweetheart again. He has all the qualities my now ex lacked (good lover, faithful and integrity for the most part). He even cried when I broke up with him.
Author BetrayedLady Posted March 7, 2010 Author Posted March 7, 2010 how long you been together?We have been together since 4 years but it doesn't matter no more as he's my ex now. I want nothing to do with him at all and will proceed on rebuilding a relationship with my other former ex.
Author BetrayedLady Posted March 7, 2010 Author Posted March 7, 2010 (edited) Backstory I would strongly suggest, if you break up with current BF, to not immediately become involved with past BF. Much has changed since HS (old flame, whom you broke up with) and you were cheated on in this current R. Take your time. No rush. You're young I actually found my ex screen name here and he's TheDingo. Apparently he cared about gaining my trust but yes everything changed ever since I bump into my old flame from high school. I was willing to work things out at first but once there's no love then there's nothing. I feel my ex made me open my eyes and realize what I had tossed away long ago. Edited March 7, 2010 by BetrayedLady
Peter Attis Posted March 7, 2010 Posted March 7, 2010 It's telling me to break up with lousy boyfriend and go back to my long ago decent ex who turned me on all the time. Not only that but he was wonderful on every possible way. There was no trust issues with my ex. He never betrayed me in any way yet I tossed out a worthy one. He's still waiting for me though... has always been so I'm going back to him.
Author BetrayedLady Posted March 7, 2010 Author Posted March 7, 2010 I was just a high schooler then.
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