Ichiban Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 Just looking to get other people's thoughts on this. So there is this girl who sits next to me in one of my classes (one empty seat between us, stadium seating). We usually exchange a few words before class starts (basically just class related things...what did you get on your quiz, yeah that test was hard, etc...nothing really personal), and then she either goes back to reading or book or class starts. Anyways, the last couple of classes I've noticed that she seems to mimic certain things I do. For instance, I will lean on the armrest to my left (the one closest to her) and rest my head in my hand, and then she will usually do the same (except leaning to her right, closest to me). I know that mimicking can be a sign of interest, but I think I may be looking too hard for signs. It's not as if every time I take a sip of water that she does the same. I know I should just be more assertive and try to talk to her more, but I'm a bit shy. Just looking to get other people's thoughts on this, and if other people have ever noticed mimicking in their partners/interests.
TRaczaj Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 I think you are looking too hard for things... I never went to college so I don't know about how to talk to girls in that setting... But you could try to steer the conversations you have with her about the class into a more person conversation... Like you could ask her what her major is. And then when she tells you you could build on that.
Author Ichiban Posted March 5, 2010 Author Posted March 5, 2010 Yeah I feel like that since I know of certain things that from psychologically level they may be interested I look for them too much.
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