friendonly Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 hey guys, i'm new here and i met this girl a few months back we became good friends and we started going out on casual movies and dinner at least 3x a week. just the two of us most of the time. I'll pick her up from the office take her to dinner and take her home. please take note that i never asked her out for a date only for dinner or movie which is somewhat similar. the reason being is that i liked someone else for a long time and just realized how much a catch she really is after i spent time with her. Now recently, I've decided that i did like the girl so I upped the game a bit, we didn't see each other for a week then met for 3 days straight from fri/sat/sun. dinner/trip to the beach and i asked her to go jogging with me and spend time with my family on sunday. (this was last week and we have been casually going out for a month without questions if we're dating or not) She appreciated everything, she had fun told me how great it was. Now i sent her flowers and cake last wed and told me it was fantastic and really made her day. and yesterday was funny since she was going to fly to ozzieland and I took her to the airport only to know that there was no flight since she was a chance passeneger! So i took her again today to the airport. placed a card and told her how much i liked her. she sent me a text saying she sees me only as a friend. what do i do, do i stop or pursue? I need unbiased point of views. kindly let me know guys. Friendonly
Awesome Username Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 Sorry man, she has let it be known that she only wants to be friends. That's the relationship killer.
Author friendonly Posted March 5, 2010 Author Posted March 5, 2010 ok point taken. it's fine, I can deal with it. I just wanted to know more since it's like you get an epiphany that she's worth it and it gets shut down. haha. Oh well live and learn. on to the next one!
Awesome Username Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 ok point taken. it's fine, I can deal with it. I just wanted to know more since it's like you get an epiphany that she's worth it and it gets shut down. haha. Oh well live and learn. on to the next one! That's right! You live, you learn, and you find someone else who appreciates you as much as you deserve to be appreciated. She's out there somewhere!
Author friendonly Posted March 5, 2010 Author Posted March 5, 2010 That's right! You live, you learn, and you find someone else who appreciates you as much as you deserve to be appreciated. She's out there somewhere! ok i know how this sounds, but i just want to get hit on the head. I know i'm too close to the situation BUT if i decide to pursue her...(I assume all that i get hurt etc. I just think that i should try and i don't know why) What would be my options? Also i'd like to hear if others are put in the same situation as me and have solved it. I'm sure this is not uncommon!(the situation not the solution) I just wanna hear both sides of the coin. realistic and idealistic. HAHA:laugh:
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