Hellothere34 Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 I've had this **** buddy for about 3 months now. We were really close friends, and after one drunken night in mexico we hooked up with each other. Ever since then, we've been hooking up with each other every other day for 3 straight months. I've never gone on a official date with her, but we watch movies/ate together all the time. We've even gone to Mexico by ourselves where we ate, drank, danced then ****ed in our hotel room. I sleep over at her place a lot, and it usually consists of us fooling around and a lot of cuddling. In public, you can see us holding hands, holding each other, kissing, etc. However, we'll talk to each other about hot guys she's met, or hot girls I've been talking to. I think I'm starting to have feelings for her. Its weird because of the relationship we have. It seems like we're kind of dating and thats what everyone sees as well, but when anyone asks us we just flat out deny it. I asked her one of her good friends about it, and he seriously doesn't know what we are. He says its a 50-50 chance she wants a relationship or a fling. What do you guys think?
sagetalk Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 Doesn't sound like a good situation to me. If you want a girlfriend, why start with FWB. That's confusing .
make me believe Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 I rarely see FWB situations turn into legitimate relationships. It's possible, but it doesn't usually happen. If that's what you want, though, you need to be honest with her and ask if she wants a relationship.
TouchedByViolet Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 If you want more than FWB you could start doing things that a boy friend would do and see how she responds. Buy her a thoughtful gift, show her you care about her, and start being more loving. If she likes this change she will reciprocate and let you know. If she prefers FWB for just the fun and entertainment that will also come across clearly.
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