Nikki Sahagin Posted March 7, 2010 Posted March 7, 2010 I think as a woman its just as hard to meet men. Its easy to get laid. But I don't want that. And most men that have the confidence to approach me I assume want either: A) sex or B) they come across like they really desperately want a relationship BOTH scare me. I think i'm just too picky. But I'm not going to change that or i'd be miserable.
Author Satisfaction Posted March 7, 2010 Author Posted March 7, 2010 Rut meaning i just cant seem to muster any confidecne towards the female gender..When youve had no sucess with women though kinda hard to have any confidence Im scared to approach becasue im pretty sure ill get rejected sorry i had to pick through to find your message. Missed it the first time round! There are lots of ways to boost your confidence. I'm sure you know that not ever approach will result in a positive result. So I'm guessing you had a long run of rejections with no successes? I know this is not what you wanna hear right now but you gotta pick yourself up and get yourself out there. You don't have to go straight to a club tomorrow and walking up to girls and ask them out but you should try and build your confidence up. Just for yourself in general. Its not good walking around feeling bad about yourself!
Author Satisfaction Posted March 7, 2010 Author Posted March 7, 2010 I think as a woman its just as hard to meet men. Its easy to get laid. But I don't want that. And most men that have the confidence to approach me I assume want either: A) sex or B) they come across like they really desperately want a relationship BOTH scare me. I think i'm just too picky. But I'm not going to change that or i'd be miserable. I don't think that picky at all. Its what you have to do. I've often given the desperate seeming guys a chance but they often have such a multitude of issues, which is not so bad so long as you are trying to deal with it. But quite often they are just using a relationship as a distraction from focusing on their problems. But you know how problems are, unlike good men, they find you where ever you are hiding. Anyway, I digress. Your attitude is the right one. Loneliness is much better that putting up being stuck in a rubbish relationship.
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