gorgeous12 Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 I find that many people are very biased when I tell that the position I am with the current guy I've been talking too/seeing. So I'm hoping I can get some open point of view from adults. I've been talking to this guy on and off for a bit more then a year and a half. When I met him I told him I was single and had a bf at the time, his friend had told him that I lied about that and things kinda faded after a couple months. He would always ask my friend how I'm doing and if I was mad at him, but would never initiate contact with me/I didnt initiate with him. A bit after that we were at the same little get together our mutual friends had. We hooked up and he said he would call. And he did so we got together a couple times after. (I would only initiate contact like 2 weeks later). We didnt hang out for a couple months but still kept in touch a couple times through out the month until we started hanging out again. One night I was mad and refered to him as a booty call and he said he saw me as a lot more, and was a shy guy who didnt know how to show his emotions. We havent hungout much since but i try to keep intouch atleast once a week. Now its been A week and a half and has been the longest we havent talked in a while. Every time I try to just not message him my intuition tells me too, that theres something there and its possible he is still interested. But the lack of contact throws me off? I'm not sure if I could go with what my heart and mind tell me or if i should look at the signs that arent there. Ahh I just need some closure. When I talk to him he says he wants to see me again and calls me babe. We are passed the stage you go through when your young and imature and are 2 mature adults, Am I being immature by not talking it out, would texting my thoughts to him be silly? Is there still hope?
Drewy1888 Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 If he wanted to hang out he would hit you up. Sit back an go hang out with a few other people and see your options. If he doesn't call you then the hell with him.
USMCHokie Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 A bit after that we were at the same little get together our mutual friends had. We hooked up and he said he would call. And he did so we got together a couple times after. Seriously, what the heck did you expect from this...? (I would only initiate contact like 2 weeks later). We didnt hang out for a couple months but still kept in touch a couple times through out the month until we started hanging out again. One night I was mad and refered to him as a booty call and he said he saw me as a lot more, and was a shy guy who didnt know how to show his emotions. This is essentially his effort to extend the lease on said booty call. We havent hungout much since but i try to keep intouch atleast once a week. Now its been A week and a half and has been the longest we havent talked in a while. Every time I try to just not message him my intuition tells me too, that theres something there and its possible he is still interested. But the lack of contact throws me off? Lack of contact = he doesn't want to sleep with you that day... I'm not sure if I could go with what my heart and mind tell me or if i should look at the signs that arent there. Ahh I just need some closure. When I talk to him he says he wants to see me again and calls me babe. See above... We are passed the stage you go through when your young and imature and are 2 mature adults, Am I being immature by not talking it out, would texting my thoughts to him be silly? Is there still hope? It seems evident that this arrangement started out as casual sex and will continue to be casual sex. If you want something more, LAUNCH, and find a guy who wants to give you more.
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