ShiftingSands Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 I posted on the dating boards about a problem I was having with a guy that I was dating. To sum it up, we've been together for 4 months, and while he's a great guy, and we give each other a lot of support, I just am not feeling any kind of spark from him. I really like talking to him, and spending time with him, but I just can't bring myself to get excited about having sex with him, and there's no passion between us when we kiss. A lot of folks, probably just like you all reading this, told me that I should cut my losses, because it sounded like I was getting bored, and it was time to break it off. I wanted to give it a bit more time, because it seemed like he REALLY liked me.... Well now, I see that he's already back on the dating site that we met from. So, yeah, it's time for us break up. I don't wanna send him a "busted" message on there... although he made a big deal about taking his profile down, but I was always like "Ok....and??" (but, I digress.) Anywho, I still think he's a great guy, and would like to still be friends with him... so, my question to you all is, how in the world do you calmly tell someone that you're not really feeling them, but that you still wanna be friends? We usually get together over the weekend, so I'm planning to break it to him then. Thanks a bunch!
USMCHokie Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 how in the world do you calmly tell someone that you're not really feeling them, but that you still wanna be friends? If you break up with him, you don't get a say on whether the two of you can be friends. That's completely up to him to decide. If you decide to break up, you should be 100% prepared to lose him from your life entirely. You don't automatically get him in your life as a friend if you can't be what he wants you to be in his life...
EYECANDY000 Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 It sounds like you won't have to do much to break up with hin. Since his dating profile is back on the website. Seems like he isn't feeling the relationship either.
EYECANDY000 Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 It sounds like you won't have to do much to break up with him since his dating profile is back on the website. Seems like he isn't feeling the relationship either
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