Ashbash11 Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 I guess I am venting more than anything else, but I am also wondering if anyone has any advice. My boyfriend got a month off from work, so he came to stay with me. It was amazing- we've NEVER been able to be together for this long consecutively. We enjoyed each other's company VERY much.. He used to live here, and then he moved 3,000 miles away for a job, so it was both amazing and heartbreaking to have him back here. We have a lot of mutual friends who live here, as well, so it felt like everything was "perfect" again. Yesterday, he had to leave... I've been really sad since he left. I hardly slept last night because I got used to having him next to me in bed. I keep thinking about him all day long.. wondering what he's doing... I am really lonely all of a sudden. I didn't realize it would be THIS hard to separate. Usually, he comes to visit for 4-5 days, and I slip back into my normal routine pretty quickly after he leaves... This time, I am really down.. I can't seem to get back on track. I miss him terribly, and I feel depressed. Has anyone else had this happen? I think the worst thing about long distance relationships is the saying goodbye over and over again.... I am in graduate school, and I have friends here and everything, so I have things to "distract" myself, but they don't take the pain of missing him away. It was TOO good having him here. I don't know what to do. I guess the other bad part is that our next visit hasn't been planned yet. I hate not knowing when I will see him again. I know for sure that it will be a while (months)...
kbh Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 It's the worst when I don't know when I'm seeing him next too. I really don't know what to say to make it better because I'm still working on it myself. All I do know is that I had never felt worse than once he left almost 2 weeks ago. The first week was horrible and so was part of the second week. The past few days have been getting a little better but it still hurts. Message me if you need to vent more It's somewhat soothing to know that what I'm feeling is normal...
Romance Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 Ah, this has happened to me before too. and I never know when it will hit. like a lot of the time after we go our separate ways, it takes a day or two but then i get back into my normal routine of being alone..but every now and again i get this horrble depressed feeling and cry everyday and can't shake it right after he leaves.
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