getbiii Posted March 3, 2010 Posted March 3, 2010 ok so here is the story, my girlfriend dumped me and started going out with some other guy to try and forget me A.K.A. rebound guy. a week ago she started calling me sending me texts saying she loves me and misses me and wants to be with me. days went by and she would say more things until one day she should up at my doorstep, one thing lead to the next and we had sex, or "love". i stoped talking ot her againg for a while and yesterday during the night she kept telling me that she wanted to see me, so she escaped from her house and i picked her up at 2 am and we went back to my house, we told each other how much we still love each other and ended up having what i think is the most incredible sex we have ever had, to make things short, she now has a hickey because of me. im hoping or thinking the other guy will see it, i now know she does still love me. what would you guys do if you saw a hickey on your girlfriend from another person? how long do hickeys even last? what if she just waits it off?
Beolf Posted March 3, 2010 Posted March 3, 2010 sounds like someone has a lot of maturing to do. i would leave it alone and walk away.
Author getbiii Posted March 3, 2010 Author Posted March 3, 2010 sounds like someone has a lot of maturing to do. i would leave it alone and walk away. yeah this kind of came out wrong, what i meant to say... was last night she told me how much she loves me and everything. i woke up today happy thinking about everything and thinking the guy would dump her because of the hickey, but thats not right and i didnt do it just because of that. it just happened. i still love her.
kyta Posted March 4, 2010 Posted March 4, 2010 if you want to be 2nd best then that ur choice, just like mine, even i know im worth more than 2nd place, yet we will accept it for the wrong reasons. get rid of her move on and find some one who loves u for u! just wish i could take my own advice, its easy when your not emotionaly involved, feck um male/female wank@rs the whole lot.
Author getbiii Posted March 4, 2010 Author Posted March 4, 2010 if you want to be 2nd best then that ur choice, just like mine, even i know im worth more than 2nd place, yet we will accept it for the wrong reasons. get rid of her move on and find some one who loves u for u! just wish i could take my own advice, its easy when your not emotionaly involved, feck um male/female wank@rs the whole lot. this is true... its just hard when you find someone this special right? i've seen girls come and go and never had i been this way when one left, i've cried before but not so long, not so much.
kyta Posted March 4, 2010 Posted March 4, 2010 i think it does get easier, i never felt this way b4 but still life goes on, lucky im feeling fine today, but wiv the ups theres allways a down around the corner.
fooled Posted March 4, 2010 Posted March 4, 2010 She is special why exactly? Because she sleeps with you and then goes back to her boyfriend? That is not special. That is selfish. You are giving this girl who has no respect for you everything she wants. Is that what you want in your life? To facilitate the happiness of people to whom your feelings don't matter? The next time she calls, ask her if she's single. If not, tell her you've got nothing to talk or meet about.
fooled Posted March 4, 2010 Posted March 4, 2010 She is special...why exactly? Because she sleeps with you and then goes back to her boyfriend? That is not special. That is selfish. You are giving this girl who has no respect for you everything she wants. Is that what you want in your life? To facilitate the happiness of people to whom your feelings don't matter? The next time she calls, ask her if she's single. If not, tell her you've got nothing to talk or meet about.
fooled Posted March 4, 2010 Posted March 4, 2010 She is special why exactly? Because she sleeps with you and then goes back to her boyfriend? That is not special. That is selfish. You are giving this girl who has no respect for you everything she wants. Is that what you want in your life? To facilitate the happiness of people to whom your feelings don't matter? The next time she calls, ask her if she's single. If not, tell her you've got nothing to talk or meet about.
Brielle1 Posted March 4, 2010 Posted March 4, 2010 quit talking to her/give her the cold shoulder & make her realllly misss you...if she's telling you the truth and not playing mind games, she will breakup with her rebound BF for you. Right now, she is having her cake and eaTing it too. Hickeys are very easy to cover up by the way.
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