GrayTree Posted March 3, 2010 Posted March 3, 2010 Isnt it funny how a happy dream can become a nightmare when its about being with someone you lost? I cant stand the dreams at night, even if I go to bed okay...not thinking of him I will have a dream. They are mostly about us just being together, laughing, happy, or making love...and sometimes they are about him coming back to me in the future. They always make me wake up miserable and I have to work on shaking them off to start the day. I wish there was a way to stop dreaming at night. Have others experienced this? Its been a month and two weeks now and he hasnt talked to me at all...but I still pray everyday in the future that he will come back. I do feel he will in my heart.
rand0m Posted March 3, 2010 Posted March 3, 2010 I seem to be the opposite; I haven't dreamt, not a single dream, in 2 months.
Rearden Metal Posted March 3, 2010 Posted March 3, 2010 Isnt it funny how a happy dream can become a nightmare when its about being with someone you lost? I cant stand the dreams at night, even if I go to bed okay...not thinking of him I will have a dream. They are mostly about us just being together, laughing, happy, or making love...and sometimes they are about him coming back to me in the future. They always make me wake up miserable and I have to work on shaking them off to start the day. I wish there was a way to stop dreaming at night. Have others experienced this? Its been a month and two weeks now and he hasnt talked to me at all...but I still pray everyday in the future that he will come back. I do feel he will in my heart. Well, at least you're not dreaming about your ex with your friend, like I did last night!
unsaved Posted March 3, 2010 Posted March 3, 2010 That is so funny you posted this. I don't dream about my ex every night. But I do have random times where I will have a dream where he and I are still together and things are how they used to be and wonderful. I had one of those dreams last night. I woke up 2 hours early and could not go back to sleep afterward because of it. Man, I wish there was a way we could turn off our brains while sleeping. It just isn't fair that my brain haunts me with the memories of him when I'm trying to get OVER him. I'm right there with ya.
GrayClouds Posted March 4, 2010 Posted March 4, 2010 Isnt it funny how a happy dream can become a nightmare when its about being with someone you lost? I cant stand the dreams at night, even if I go to bed okay...not thinking of him I will have a dream. They are mostly about us just being together, laughing, happy, or making love...and sometimes they are about him coming back to me in the future. They always make me wake up miserable and I have to work on shaking them off to start the day. I wish there was a way to stop dreaming at night. Have others experienced this? Its been a month and two weeks now and he hasnt talked to me at all...but I still pray everyday in the future that he will come back. I do feel he will in my heart. It s just your subconscious helping you let go, working through the feelings that are still to hard to do it consciously. Try writing with a pen and paper before you go to sleep. Just write all your feeling without trying to edit, Write hard and fast until you can not write anymore, it will help with the dreams.
Sadbutrelieved Posted March 4, 2010 Posted March 4, 2010 I've had two graphic sex dreams about my ex, and I woke up feeling awful. I'm going to try that writing idea, Grayclouds...thanks!
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