rand0m Posted March 3, 2010 Posted March 3, 2010 It's been nearly two months now since we split. She left me to chase some other dream and because we no longer had time for one another.. she "fell out of love". She wanted to remain friends, but I knew that wasn't possible. We danced around for a while, testing boundaries and figuring out where to go from that moment. In retrospect, I should've disappeared for a little while immediately following the break, but I wasn't ready to let go. Communication went from nothing for a few days to quite a few texts/online messages for a day. Finally I went on vacation, just took off. When I returned she had left for Mexico. Now she is back in town, and seemingly on a bit of a rampage. As my friend, her brother came over after a family dinner and told me how she had been talking **** all dinner about the friendship between him and I. I don't get this. He and I have always been friends, and now she's trying to tear us apart. My guess: either a.) she's jealous that I don't really speak with her, or b.) she's upset because she's unsure how to introduce a potential flame to the family while I'm so close with them. I'm going to assume it's a bit of both. It just makes me mad because I didn't do anything to her. She called it quits. She gave up. She wanted out, and now that she has it, she's trying to bring me down and destroy me even further. This is not the girl I'm in love with.. I do not know her anymore.
mickleb Posted March 8, 2010 Posted March 8, 2010 Time for you to start trash-talking her, my friend. To the dog, the TV the walls - anything that feels good and won't pass the message back to her. Get it, her, out of your system with a little justified but safe, rage. Nothing wrong with that. Take care. x
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