Abril Posted March 3, 2010 Posted March 3, 2010 my boyfriend and I had one year togheter, he is doctors studing in Canada in November he made a heroic trip from Canada to Mexico to be with me and my family 5 days i mean Heroic becuase the hospital just gave him 1 day free and he used the weekend and two days from hlidays just to see me, everything was amazing and romantic we opened our heart to each other, and we also talked about a future togheter he told my father that he aprecciate the beautiful gift i am, but suddenly in december he called me and said he can't continue into de relationship, after 2 days he called me and we back togheter he said was becuase he is very stressed with the university the hospital and the research he have to start this semester to get graduated in may, so he "cant follow his heart right now" so we back togheter but in January he dumped me again and he want we keep as friends, we almost didn't talk in january but in february he started to contact me and well he is sweet and cute when we have the chance to talk, he also told me he miss me, and im the best person he ever meet, and that he knows that, and im special, beautiful, smart, woith an amazing family etc... So las time we talked I asked him if he still think about us not for now but maybe after few months, he answered,"LET ME FINISH THE DOCTORATE AND THEN EVERYTHING WILL BE CLEARLY" and he also emailed me, saying he aprecciate mu support and understanding in this time, and he hope EVERYTHING BE BETTER AFTER HE FINISH" He lawyas answer my emails the same day (i dont email him to much maybe i emailed him 2 times? What you think could be there a chance to back togheter?
Iamthedouglas Posted March 3, 2010 Posted March 3, 2010 He just sounds overly stressed to me. Not that it makes it right to keep breaking your relationship, but he must be under a lot of pressure. School can do that, it can make calm people panic, and life loving people suicidal over fear of failure. Give him just a bit of time to finish and see if it's all okay. If it ends and he's still behaving that way, ask again then.
Author Abril Posted March 3, 2010 Author Posted March 3, 2010 in february, he started calling becuase he could loose be becuase a gossip he was really worried about ii, I knew that gossip was a lie but he thinked was truth and i could belive them and dump him and his friedship forever so he called and email me at least 10 times that day, he really can¿r handdle the frustrations
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