Drewy1888 Posted March 3, 2010 Posted March 3, 2010 (edited) I began dating this girl about 2 years ago. We met through the internet and fell in love. For a while we saw eachother a little more than 3 days a week. Before our breakup we saw eachother on weekends. She lives 2 hours away. I've never felt so good with a girl before in my life. My girlfriend has had a really tough life. She has divorced parents and has had a lot of things go wrong in her life. She has an anger problem from this. When we began going out she totally changed her life around. A few weeks ago she got a car so that she could start driving to work and she could drive to see me. When she got it, I noticed a change in her. She never wanted to be home because of the stress of her crying little sister and her nagging mom. This wore on our relationship a little because I was able to talk to her over the phone as often as before. I had a talk with her and she seemed set on staying where she lived. I made the mistake by ending the relationship. My second thoughts came a few hours afterwards and I wanted to talk to her. I realized that if we got through all the obstacles for 2 years, that we could get through this too. She told me that a relationship is just too much for her right now. This shook me up pretty bad. She told me that she has too many things going on to be in a relationship right now considering she has to work more hours. I made the mistake of telling her mom to have a talk to her about how to deal with the stress. I almost had her back the day after we broke up but the next day she was acting wierd towards me. I found out that her parents gave her a lot of grief for not getting back with me because they think I'm such a good kid. I believe that this pushed her even further away from me. I WANT her back. Badly. The advice I keep getting is to leave her alone and if she loves me she will miss me and come back. Should I cut off full communication and give her space. I want to call or text her so bad but when I do she doesn't really want to talk to me. Can you please give me some good advice. Thank you. Edited March 3, 2010 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
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